Session Hours

Due to some things on my end, I need to change my hours. This may be temporary, so please don’t expect that it will last for any length of time. I may change it again next month, I don’t know. It will depend on how some things play out for me in the near future.

Effectively immediately my hours will be 12pm to 8pm. I will not be able to offer sessions past 8pm at this time — regardless of the length you are booking.

If you are already on my schedule for a time past 8pm I will honor that if you are unable to change the time.

If you have an extenuating circumstance where you would really like to have a scene with me and would have to go past 8pm, such as a three-hour that absolutely cannot begin any earlier than 6pm, I will see if there’s a way I can accommodate you, but please be ready to tribute extra for this.

“Site Membership”

Periodically I get a notification that someone has requested membership to my site.

I do not have a membership site at this time.

Then why can someone request one, you ask?

It has to do with the limitations of my web host. They don’t seem to want to offer their customers things web developers would like such as putting old pages in folders that are not accessible to the public, as people tend to like to do for archival purposes. Once you want to update or make a new page, we either have to (a) delete our work, or (b) keep it publicly accessible (i.e. the equivalent of the public_html folder).

Because I want keep all my old pages, I have to change the settings on each page so that people can’t actually see it or it could interfere with my currently published pages. The options we have to do this are limited, and none of them are good. One of them is to set the page to “members only”.

I’m not entirely sure how some of you are accessing these pages in order to get to the screen to be asked if you want to become a member. My guess is that you either have old ones bookmarked or possibly some search engine has old ones still indexed and is referring people to them.

Anyway, I’m sorry but your requests to join my membership site won’t result in anything — at this time, anyway.

I started working on a membership site but have still not figured out how I want to accept subscription payments for it yet. Nearly all payment processors explicitly exclude adult content from their terms of service, so it narrows you to a few less-than-ideal options from which I have yet to decide will result in the smallest headache.

Tribute

As of today, my tribute has increased. I tend to be generous and have raised it little over the years, but this means I’m lagging behind the “standard” rate and the Dommes charging it, including new ones who don’t have my experience, (likely) skill & professionalism, dungeon, & testimonials. And that should not be the case.

Tribute Increase – Updated

Effective April 30, 2022 I will be increasing my tribute to 350/hr. This will also increase the rate of longer sessions, though I will continue to give a discount when you book multiple hours.

Existing clients that I have seen at least 4 times in the past year will be grandmothered until July 31. As of August 1, 2022, everyone will be at the new rate.

Update: Want to get a session at my old rate before my tribute increases but can’t schedule until a date after April 30? You have two options:

  1. Pre-pay 50% of a session by Tax Day, April 14th, and I will allow you until June 30, 2022 to schedule it.
  2. Pre-pay 100% of a session by Tax Day, April 14th, and I will allow you to until July 31st, 2022 to schedule it.

You can only pre-pay one session.

Send Me a Text!

Now you can text me via NiteFlirt!

Go to my page: https://www.niteflirt.com/Mistress%20Tissa#

Then, the listing under “Mistress Tissa offers chat” click on “chat now”.

You pay 99 cents to send and my reply is free.

You can send a text any time you desire. I will reply as soon as I can. Those sent between 6pm and midnight EST are most likely receive a reply right away.

You can ask questions about BDSM/kink, receive counsel and support about BDSM/kink and relationships, we can discuss our day or hobbies, or you can just say hi. If you show yourself to be a good submissive, you may receive a task.

IMPORTANT: Do not use text for:

  • scheduling in-person sessions (this is against their TOS and can get us both banned)
  • cancelling in-person sessions (same as above)
  • for scenes or roleplay

COVID Protocol Update

I have been in the process of slowly phasing out the masking protocol over the past four months. In that time I’ve had only one hiccup — and it was with me.

I believe I likely had the Omicron variant between late December and January. It clearly was a very mild virus because although I had a few on-and-off symptoms I didn’t actually feel sick; I felt normal. Still, I informed everyone who requested a session. I wore a mask with those who were okay going ahead with our scene and rescheduled one session with someone who wasn’t. Everything was fine and no one reported any illness.

I have had no incidents since then, and if the next few weeks is the same I will move to the next phase on March 20 effective immediately*. The change will be as follows:

Current protocol:

  • masking is mandatory to new clients and optional for those with whom I’ve established a trusting relationship
  • Some activities are off limits to new players because of masking, such as full hoods, gags, consumption
  • Some activities are only available to existing clients who pass screening, such as spit play, foot or heel/boot Domination with mouth play, and other instances in which your mouth is exposed
  • Some activities are completely off limits, such as vacbed, multi-person sessions (couples in the same household are exempt), and domestic fetish or service will be once again available
  • I do not conduct scenes longer than 3 hours
  • I run my HEPA air purifier for most scenes
  • I do not offer any scenes which are in any place other than my dungeon
  • I offer a relaxed cancellation policy where same-day cancellations (less than 24 hours from the session but more than 4 hours) resulted in a loss of 25% of your deposit instead of 100%

Revised protocol:

  • masking will be optional for everyone; new clients will not be required to wear them by default
  • New clients will now have the option of requesting full hoods, gags, and consumption (e.g. CEI), not just existing clients
  • Both existing and new clients will be allowed to request spit play, foot or heel/boot Domination with mouth play, and other instances in which your mouth is exposed
  • Activities that have been completely off limits, such as vacbed, multi-person sessions (couples in the same household are exempt), and domestic fetish or service will be once again available
  • I’m willing to conduct scenes longer than 3 hours (I may decline them in some cases and will tell you before you schedule)
  • I will run my HEPA air purifier for all scenes
  • I’m willing to consider scenes at other professional dungeons or play parties (I no longer offer sessions in hotels)
  • I will reinstate my standard cancellation policy, which is described on my protocol page.

CONDITIONS:

  • As is always the case, and as reflected within the “RACK” (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) philosophy, you are ultimately responsible for whatever risks you choose to assume when you come for a session. If you have health concerns or are high-risk for a complication please take precautions to keep yourself safe. If you would like me to help you reduce those risks I cannot if I’m not made aware of them. Even when I am, I obviously cannot promise a risk-free experience. No one can.
  • Like me, you are still responsible for disclosing any windows of exposure, positive test results, and symptoms, so that I can make an informed decision about a session with you.
  • You may still request that you and/or I wear a mask for a scene if you are not comfortable removing it entirely. I will likely honor your request, but if I don’t believe I can I will be up-front with you about it. When I might not be able to honor your request is if you (1) ask for a more physical scene, such as body Dom/rough body play (anything that gets my heart rate and breathing up), or (2) ask for a scene longer than 2 hours. Based on my experience I find these situations challenging with a mask.
  • I still, and will always, reserve the right to decline to engage in activities or to session altogether with someone I believe to be a risk to myself or others or who has otherwise violated the terms of our agreement.

*I updated it to immediately because Philadelphia just dropped their mask mandates today.

Changes to COVID protocol

After much reading and consideration, I’m going to begin the slow phase out of the masking protocol. This decision is in part due to our governor, here in PA, announcing that our mask mandate will likely be modified or dropped in January.

For the time being, the option to remove your mask during our session will be offered to select clients. Specifically those with whom I’ve developed trusting relationships and still practice good safety measures around others. As a result, some types of play that have been in moratorium will be offered to these people:

  • hoods
  • gags
  • CEI & consumption

Activities which may be offered:

  • spit play
  • my putting my heels/boots or feet in your mouth
  • other instances in which your mouth is exposed

Still not offered yet:

  • vacbed
  • multi-person sessions (couples in the same household are exempt)
  • domestic fetish or service

If you would still prefer that you and/or I wear masks during our session indicate this when you request a scene. Also, if you would like to schedule your time to minimize possible exposure, let me know that, too. I will do my best to accommodate your needs.

As usual, if you feel ANY symptoms in the 2 weeks prior or after of time together, let me know.