Red Ass


Whether it’s because…

…you enjoy the sensation of my hand spanking, my paddle smacking, or my cane striking your eager bottom…

…you wish to relinquish control to me and offer your ass for my perverse enjoyment…


…you’ve been terribly naughty and need to learn a very important lesson…

I will make you blush.

How deeply remains to be seen…


New to Temenos: Assortment of Items from Heresy

I placed an order with Claire of SoCal-based Heresy last week and it arrived today:


Two twin beaters, two small vinyl whips, and two loop beaters.

I wanted more smaller items for genital play and other instances in which I want a smaller area of impact or I’m in close proximity to my victi–I mean, play partner.

I’ve ordered from Claire before and have always been really happy with everything. Claire has fantastic attention to detail, a steal for what you’re getting, and is very professional to deal with. Highly recommended!


I love to give spankings!


A spanking can be a wonderfully thrilling, intimate, satisfying, and even therapeutic activity.

The range of sensation, rhythm, sweet spots, and positions are delicious to explore on a willing bottom.

Adding a roleplay can heighten the experience even more: Disciplinarian, 1950s Mother, Aunt, Teacher, and more… (I’m always open to your respectful ideas)

For the most eager, I can satisfy your need for extended sessions. I can easily spank for an hour, creating a transcendent experience in which you can lose yourself.

You are spectacular. no words were better said then ‘some things were worth waiting for….’ it could not have been better. … thank you so much. it was wonderful looking at you from the ceiling watching you spank my lily white bottom. i m still on cloud 9. cant wait to do it again.” – b

Are you ready to offer your bottom to Me?


Discipline: you need it.

Are you a naughty boy or girl who won’t obey and just doesn’t learn? Do you need an attitude adjustment?

Come over here right now, young man. Assume the position, young lady.

If you have been bad, you need to be punished for your misdeed with a good over-the-knee spanking or paddling, like misbehaving boys and girls deserve. Those of you who give Me attitude might also need your mouth washed out with soap.


I’m a compelling Disciplinarian, Mommy, Step-Mommy, Auntie, or Boss who provides a range of no-nonsense discipline measures from Good Boy/Good Girl training and tasks and, when required, punishments suited to the severity of your misdeeds.

I know that between My firm hand, assortment of belts, hairbrushes, paddles, canes, floggers, whips, and My background in psychology (I’m very good at behavioral analysis and modification), I will set you on the right path.

A new slave who knows how to make an impression (and so do I)

sissy slave s scheduled an audience with Me this weekend and before the session he asked what from My wishlist I would most like. I told him what I most wanted was not on My list. I gave him an option of My top two things. I was impressed that, without hesitation, he selected the more expensive of the two. And he immediately sent this toward the gift:


Like a good slave, he provided the remainder when he saw Me.

Now, for this scene, we played in another dungeon. This was a nice change of pace and allowed for some different options.

After having some fun with him on the cross, where I could see on his face how quickly I had him slipping under My spell, I moved My sissy bitch to the table, tightly tied him down, and continued the punishment he needed.


There’s a lot I could detail here, about how I humiliated and degraded him, how I made him wimper and beg, and how I became excited when I thought he might be crying, but instead I’ll just leave you with a lovely shot of his red, swollen ass after I hit him with a few floggers, straps, a cane, and a handful of lashes from My single tail.


He made a good impression on Me…so I made a good impression on him.

Afterward he sent Me this:

“I just want to say thank you for that wonderful session and for puting me in my place yesterday mistress. Hope to session with you again soon.”

Would you believe this slut is already asking for the date he can come back?

Training t2

In My last session with t2, he did not properly execute a simple instruction: kiss My heels.

He started by kissing, but then he began licking.

Immediately, I pulled My heel away from his mouth.


t2 apologized and I told him he needed to be trained.

He seemed eager for this.

So when he returned for his next session, I began his much needed training.

Part of which involved submission to My hands and floggers.


Then, I offered him a chance to redeem himself.

Could he show Me he is able to follow directions and be a proper slave?

He assured Me he could.

I told him that I would give him another chance to kiss My heels if he took My single tail. (Something he had never done.)

He agreed.

He only made one mistake when kissing them.

Next time, he will make no mistakes.

Afterword, he sent Me this message:

“Mistress Tissa,
Thank You for the session yesterday. It was a learning experience.
I feel that I am being trained by a caring, very competent artisan of
the life-style.
Very Truly Yours,
(t2) “


mvb returns

mvb returned to further explore her (hungry) submission to My (bountiful) Domination.

Because mvb is so committed to the experience, it was effortless for Me to respond in kind.

I slipped into Domspace very quickly. And there I continued to flow for three hours.

Some highlights:

…carefully dressing her to My satisfaction…

….an exhilarating spanking which left Me out of breath — and mvb crying out “YES! YES! YES!”…

…delicious clit and ball torture…


…to her need to be dragged down, beaten, and fucked into…freedom.


…and the next day, she had this to say:

Oh wow.

i’m 110% certain that i’ve never had a more exhilarating, intense, glorious, and wholly fulfilling experience in my entire life. You *get* me, and because of that, i felt this feeling of complete emotional and physical submission Yesterday that i’ve never felt before. i wasn’t necessarily scared by it. Instead, it felt like this cathartic, evolutionary thing, this almost “caterpillar-to-butterfly” feeling.

There’s a thing that happens when You touch me in any way that i can’t explain as feeling anything other than perfect. From here on out, if You’re giving, i’m accepting, lol. i’m here for all of the emotion, all of the growth, all of the little tiny explosions of endorphins that make me feel like i’m blasting deeper and deeper into my best self while in Your hands. There’s a real honesty and truth in what You do that’s really powerful in the way that i feel if i give You more of myself, then You’re going to somehow make that more of me just shine and sparkle.

i’ve spent the last 18 hours laughing out loud for minutes on end and feeling my body just spasm out of the blue in the best ways possible. i also blush at random times when i think about the idea that You literally fucked me silly. In doing that, You made a dream of mine come true.

Here’s some full disclosure that i feel really comfortable now about letting You know (though You probably already know this), lol. i’m a slut. Like, in my mind, the sluttiest of sluts. The most depraved of sluts. But, i also view this as this really empowered thing for me where i like, create safe space for myself. There’s a thing about everything involved in my own identity and submission (and how they relate and interact with each other) that for me feels like freedom and discovering a peace of mind that makes me feel whole. It’s like, the biggest and heaviest thing in my life. You make it feel lighter than air.

Honestly, i spend more time than i’m comfortable telling most anyone reading about and watching documentaries about my favorite femme fatales, then doubling down on watching really extreme transsexual and Woman-on-woman Femdom porn. Like, almost obsessively sometimes. Then, i try to find the happy place between all of these images, actions, and myself. That’s my greatest frustration these days and so much of why O/our sessions are so amazing to me. i present my body to You, and you present back to me this whole other person that You’ve like, used and abused in the best way and then put a bow on top like, “here’s who You *actually* are.” It’s so great, so liberating, and so beneficial. Like, a giant weight has been lifted off my shoulders and i just feel so unencumbered in all facets of my life because of that. Thank You for all of this.