Welcoming Nimagras

Recently, I brought Nimagras on his first adventure with me. He indicated that he had wanted to contact me for a long time but didn’t feel he was ready to submit to me — until now.

Nima is an experienced player. He had a lot to say about what he enjoyed and didn’t, and presented a level of self-awareness that I appreciate. However, in my typical fashion, probed him further in our pre-session conversation (almost twice what I allotted!) which revealed “things…that never crossed my mind”.

When he came for his session, our conversation flowed, but once we descended into my dungeon I perceived some reticence. I usually see such things as a challenge — which I gladly accept. ūüėČ

Afterward, we were both spent.

The day after he wrote this to me:

“I left enveloped in a womb-like warmth, physically and mentally exhausted. I awoke pleasantly numb and famished.

I have a pair of day-after measures which have yet to fail.

1. It’s a great session if I felt safe enough to drop my guard, to give into the experience, and to GET OUT OF MY OWN WAY. It means that the walls enveloped us and that I trusted you to take care of everything. It means I did not have a care in the world because you were taking care of everything, and all I had to do was enjoy what you produced. It means it was a symbiotic relationship where we both got something. It’s akin to mental marriage for a few hours.

2. It’s said that a starving man will pay anything for a steak, but he has no interest in a second steak, even if it’s free. It’s a great session if I walk out so satisfied that I could not conceivably continue playing, even for free!

Together, we hit home runs on both. I’m certain I have never had a first session where both litmus tests were positive. That success is a testament to your ability to let me enjoy the roller coaster.”

Thank you, Nima. If I were to say anything, other than to thank you for your trust, it would be that while I created the roller coaster, you were the one who allowed yourself to enjoy it.

He then sent this follow-up message:

“It occurred to me last night that on a daily basis you produce such experiences to fulfill each client’s hopes and expectations. I’m awed at the mental and physical toll put upon you. Plus, you willingly carry the huge responsibility of guiding each client safely and successfully through their experience. 


I knew being a pro is hard work. Until this week, I did not have an appreciation for just how much you give of yourself. Saying thank you seems insufficient, but I sincerely thank you for putting forth such effort on the behalf of your clients.”

I appreciate this. You’re right: this is hard work. And the more you put yourself into it, the more exhausting it is — but also the more rewarding.

UPDATE: Nima sent me this a few days later:

“Still mellow and warm inside. Better than drugs.¬†


You have the touch.”

I’ve heard this before. ūüėČ

Until next time…

Mistress Tissa

Welcoming Loso to Temenos

Loso recently came for his first session with me. This is what he wrote to me afterward (edited slightly for privacy):

After reflecting on our session I was impressed with the entire experience from the pre-session communication to the execution of the activities during the session. You made me feel very comfortable when I arrived, and I felt like I was able to be very open with you about my likes and dislikes. That is very important, because at no point there was pressure for me to feel like I had to do something I was uncomfortable with. At the beginning of our session I was a bit tense and in my own head. You noticed this right away, and you made sure to make me feel relaxed and put me in a headspace where I could fully let go. … This is all a credit to you and your experience on how to guide someone to having the right mindset while serving you. Also, you were very caring for marks that were made throughout the session and made sure to clean/treat them properly. There were a lot of favorite activities I can pull from our time together, but I will try to name a few. When I was on the cross there was silence in the room and the only sounds were the impact of your flogger and smacks. This was the moment I truly let go and felt like I was no longer thinking, but instead reacting. The next activity was when I was on your table … There were a lot of sensations being played with at this point, and I loved the feeling of how vulnerable I felt. The last thing was [the predicament]. During this part I felt like I had to work for something, and the challenge I was presented with created a unique sensation on the mind and body. All in all it was an amazing session, and I hope I can be granted the opportunity to serve you again.

Also, he sent me this fantastic silicone gag from my wishlist:

Thank you, Loso! I’m glad we were able to have this hot and memorable experience together. You’re welcome back whenever you’re ready.

Send Me a Text!

Now you can text me via NiteFlirt!

Go to my page: https://www.niteflirt.com/Mistress%20Tissa#

Then, the listing under “Mistress Tissa offers chat” click on “chat now”.

You pay 99 cents to send and my reply is free.

You can send a text any time you desire. I will reply as soon as I can. Those sent between 6pm and midnight EST are most likely receive a reply right away.

You can ask questions about BDSM/kink, receive counsel and support about BDSM/kink and relationships, we can discuss our day or hobbies, or you can just say hi. If you show yourself to be a good submissive, you may receive a task.

IMPORTANT: Do not use text for:

  • scheduling in-person sessions (this is against their TOS and can get us both banned)
  • cancelling in-person sessions (same as above)
  • for scenes or roleplay

Testimonial from slave 70

I welcomed slave 70 to Temenos recently. Here is what he wrote to me afterward:

I greatly appreciate you inviting me into Your world and into Temenos for the afternoon. I appreciate all the time, effort and energy You clearly must have devoted to making today such a success. It was all I had hoped for, and so much more.

…You looked absolutely stunning. In my opinion You look¬†even better in person than in Your photos. I¬†hear people use this¬†phrase¬†a lot, but I genuinely mean it.

…Your Dominant¬†commanding presence and probing eyes overwhelmed me. But¬†I also loved seeing you betray a¬†beautiful smile here and there, like when You were¬†setting up or adjusting¬†the ropes or torturing me with various things. I appreciate how You kept me on my toes the whole time, challenging me, pushing me and questioning me. I also really got into You training me to respond to Your commands appropriately; actually I loved that!

As I drove home,¬†I was thinking about how the world feels very different,¬†in a sense¬†fresh and new.¬†I feel a bit like¬†Neo from the Matrix ‚Äúwaking up‚ÄĚ and¬†seeing the world with¬†a completely new perspective. … And I‚Äôm¬†already hearing Your voice echo in my head,¬†helping to guide me as I make choices, good choices that is. Thank You for that.

Today was an incredible day; so many things were perfect for me. It was quite easy for me to fall under Your spell, as You truly are a naturally Dominant person. I do hope You will permit me to see You again soon; I would be a very lucky slave to have that honor.

Thank you, slave 70! I’m elated I was able to help you achieve this in only our first session. Looking forward to what may come!

(And, yes, of course you’re welcome to visit again.)

Mistress Tissa on Coalition Radio rescheduled to Friday, August 7, 9:45PM EST

Listening is easy. Just follow the link in the tweet.

Mistress Tissa on Coalition Radio on Friday, July24, 9:45PM EST – POSTPONED

[Clean link is here]

The interview will be loosely structured, so I’m unsure about everything that will be discussed, but some topics mentioned are: power dynamics in BDSM, “topping from the bottom”, the influence of Patriarchy on BDSM and gender play, and more.

It will be a live video feed.

UPDATE: Due to my illness, this discussion will be postponed. A new date will be announced shortly.

Obey Mistress Tissa

If you were here, I would strip you of your clothes and force you to your knees.

Looking down at you, I would remind you that you you are owned by My masterful mind, My beautiful face, My gorgeous tits, My fantastic ass, My delectable feet, and My Alpha essence.

As you look up at Me, towering above you, you would nod, mouth slightly agape, and mumble, “Yes, Mistress…”

“I see that tiny cock of yours twitching.”

you reflexively look down.

SLAP!

My hand strikes your face.

“Keep your eyes on Me, slave!”

you tremble and whisper, “Yes, Mistress. I’m sorry, Mistress…”

Now that I have you on your knees, what are you going to lay at my feet, slut?”