FemDom is an often distorted concept.
Much of mainstream BDSM’s depiction is actually MaleDom fetishism disguised as the woman in control. This is especially true in porn. It’s so pervasive that some people out there honestly don’t seem to know the difference.
Maybe you’re one of those who knows this. You can tell when you play with someone who isn’t actually Dominant. It all seems unbelievable. Contrived. And you’re left feeling a little let down. Like you want to feel truly dominated. Real control.
This requires an understanding and mastery of power.
Does this describe me?
Ask some of my subs:
“The level of control you exerted over me was great! … I feel like a broke through to a new level of submission/power exchange. It was incredible!!!”
“Thank You for letting me experience one of the few true power-exchange scenes i’ve had ever“
“in one session she got me so “high” on her power over me I actually did faint for about 10 seconds.Talk about POWER!! … If you’ve been looking for a REAL session and want to submit you’ve found the right Mistress“
“Mistress Tissa is absolutely incredible, exemplifying the title of Professional Domme. … Our session was so fluid, natural, and powerful that I’m still shuddering from the crescendo.“
“When I am with Her, I know I am with a genuinely dominant, deliciously kinky and stunningly beautiful woman who totally controls my mind and body during the time we spend together”
“The way You control mind body and spirit is uncanny. You truly are a Sorceress. i thoroughly enjoyed everything we did, but being under the power of Your gaze would have been worth the trip by itself.“
“I have had sessions with many different Dommes, but none as beautiful, powerful, and controlling as Mistress Tissa.“
“You are an amazing Mistress. … You are the most powerful woman i have ever met.“
“If you want authentic domination and you are submissive RUN to her Temenos and have your brain rewired.When I am with her I can feel her power being transferred onto me”
“Your grace, power, and presence captivated me …. I can’t wait to see you again.”
Come, give yourself to me and feel my power.
**Correction: This is Nativa Richard modeling the Yva Richard fetish line begun by Her and Her husband, circa 1920s.
Her gloves and boots are interesting. The gloves look like there might be bones painted(?) on the top, and Her boots look like they’re actually long spats over heels.
(Of course we assume this hot little scene was negotiated and wasn’t a violation of consent.)
[Copyright Charlton, June 1968]