Almost every client expresses some kind of concern about their privacy. Some people are very laid back about it and some people are very, very paranoid. I understand and respect the range of concerns and needs that exist. However, what … continue reading “Professional BDSM & Confidentiality: It Goes Both Ways”
Have you ever had someone shame you about your identity or sexuality?
Feels horrible, doesn’t it?
Have you ever had a Domme or Mistress do it?
If you’re a genuinely submissive person, it can be especially damaging — possibly pushing … continue reading “The Judgmental BDSM Professional”
I’m a vegetarian. Not the militant kind (unless you enjoy that). I don’t want to get into a discussion here about why, other than killing animals so that I can eat them makes me uncomfortable. Also, I just fucking … continue reading “Consensual Cruelty”
Many Dommes indicate “feminization” as an activity they offer. It’s popular. A lot of men are interested in it. Usually it’s cis men, but I have known trans men who enjoy it. Also, usually straight men, but sometimes queer, bi, … continue reading “Why I Don’t Do “Feminization” As A Form Of Humiliation”