Trying to find a Dominant woman and not having any luck? After years and years of observing men looking for Dommes and making a lot of the same mistakes, I have a lot to tell you.
In this class I’ll discuss what a Dominant woman is (and is not), where you may find her, and what you can do to increase your chances that she will be interested in you.
Gentlemen, let me help you have an edge over the others.
The interview will be loosely structured, so I’m unsure about everything that will be discussed, but some topics mentioned are: power dynamics in BDSM, “topping from the bottom”, the influence of Patriarchy on BDSM and gender play, and more.
It will be a live video feed.
UPDATE: Due to my illness, this discussion will be postponed. A new date will be announced shortly.
I removed “littles”, “bigs”, “boys” and “girls” because NiteFlirt would not publish my listing as they said it could infer age play and that is prohibited in their terms of service.
If you would like to do age play, you will have to contact me through my website to set something up outside of their interface.
Much of mainstream BDSM’s depiction is actually MaleDom fetishism disguised as the woman in control. This is especially true in porn. It’s so pervasive that some people out there honestly don’t seem to know the difference.
Maybe you’re one of those who knows this. You can tell when you play with someone who isn’t actually Dominant. It all seems unbelievable. Contrived. And you’re left feeling a little let down. Like you want to feel truly dominated. Real control.
This requires an understanding and mastery of power.
Does this describe me?
Ask some of my subs:
“The level of control you exerted over me was great! … I feel like a broke through to a new level of submission/power exchange. It was incredible!!!”
“Thank You for letting me experience one of the few true power-exchange scenes i’ve had ever“
“in one session she got me so “high” on her power over me I actually did faint for about 10 seconds.Talk about POWER!! … If you’ve been looking for a REAL session and want to submit you’ve found the right Mistress“
“Mistress Tissa is absolutely incredible, exemplifying the title of Professional Domme. … Our session was so fluid, natural, and powerful that I’m still shuddering from the crescendo.“
“When I am with Her, I know I am with a genuinely dominant, deliciously kinky and stunningly beautiful woman who totally controls my mind and body during the time we spend together”
“The way You control mind body and spirit is uncanny. You truly are a Sorceress. i thoroughly enjoyed everything we did, but being under the power of Your gaze would have been worth the trip by itself.“
“I have had sessions with many different Dommes, but none as beautiful, powerful, and controlling as Mistress Tissa.“
“You are an amazing Mistress. … You are the most powerful woman i have ever met.“
“If you want authentic domination and you are submissive RUN to her Temenos and have your brain rewired.When I am with her I can feel her power being transferred onto me”
“Your grace, power, and presence captivated me …. I can’t wait to see you again.”
I know how much you’d love for me to use your face as my seat.. To be smothered by my beautiful pussy and ass… To feel the erotic anticipation of my weight descending onto you….
But know this: you are in no position to ask for this privilege. I’m your Dominant, not your servant.
I don’t care what kind of tribute you offer me. I don’t provide it because you demand it with bribes.
This honor is not to be bought, it is to be earned.
“…the concept of feminism, often met with bewilderment here. The reasoning: Of course, women are capable. Of course, women are competent. But no, men and women aren’t equal — women have proven they can do everything men can, but men can’t do everything women can.”
“People think we are making some statement with the women being in charge, but that’s our culture,” she reasoned. “It works. We can’t imagine it any other way.”
