Mistress Tissa’s Dix Flags

Welcome, thrill-seekers!

Step right up into my sleep sack, where I will fully strap you in so you can’t move a muscle (for safety reasons, of course)…

…but I’ll leave your tiny dick out so I can hurt it. And the thrill is — there is nothing you can do about it!

A very popular attraction is our very own “The Iron Mistress”:

Sometimes, at Dix Flags, “accidents” happen…

Now it’s time for your balls to take a spin on the Rubber Flogger! Fast, slow, hard, or soft — you never know what’s next!

Our last stop is the whirling tails of the Double Devil! Ouch, that’s gotta hurt!

Come back and offer your body up to be my amusement park again soon!

CBT Afternoon

When he arrived, I pushed Monkey Dick into a chair and created a challenging situation for him:

As you can imagine, I had a lot of fun with this.

I laid him on his back and trapped his poor balls in my CBT table:

How hot is seeing his nuts sitting there on the table, as if being served up on a platter for me?

I gave him the honor of me in my sexy thigh-highs step on and grind his vulnerable balls:

Later, I brought out my new floggers and gave them a test run on his ass, thighs, cock, and balls:

A perfect way to spend an afternoon. Monkey Dick sent me this in an email and I think he agrees:

Thank you for another absolutely great session. Tying the spiked ball cage to my feet and then tickle my feet, very creative and sadistic. I loved it. Your new CBT trample table locks the balls in a very vulnerable position. I loved all the teasing and torturing … Your new black and red floggers are a real winner. They look great, make a significant slap sound on impact, and you are able to throw these floggers rapidly and accurately. With the cyclical flogging one hit blends into the next building to a crescendo. Great purchase and you use them very effectively! I hope to experience them again.

Rough Treatment

Monkey Dick eagerly brings me his cock and balls for my exquisite, rough treatment. I’m happy to accept his offering. I enjoy every one of his squirms, gasps, and howls.

When he last came to me, I instructed him to sit. He watched me as I wound my rope around parts of his body.

Where should I put the other end of this rope?

You better keep your arms up, Monkey Dick, or you’re going to rip your balls off. LOL!

After having some fun with him in one of my chairs, I restrained him and clamped him into my pillory.

Once he was unable to resist my advances, I brought out various implements to see what kind of reaction I could elicit.

First, a little warm up…

After what Monkey Dick described as, “some of the most painful flogging/whipping of my balls I ever experienced … it was great!”, it was time for a whipping.

I was proud of him. He took quite a lot of lashes.

Afterward he said, “Thank you for the absolutely great session!!!”

He also gave me a super cute card and a generous gift for my birthday. (Thank you, Monkey Dick!)

And surprise, surprise: he’s already scheduled for our next CBT adventure.

Stay tuned…

Monkey Dick, Exposed

I put Monkey Dick in my metal spreader device and forced him onto his back.

Now rendered helpless, his ass is mine.

With his cock, balls,and ass exposed to me, I gave him a delicious flogging.

Then added a little predicament into the mix.

While I was having my fun with him, I noticed the shadow of my earring on his ass:

(I should get that made into a metal brand)

Monkey Dick: “Thanks for the great session. … I really like the bondages you put me in … I was surprised how much I enjoyed the flogging hits … It was great! … The hard hits while in the predicament tie were intense and absolutely great!!!

Beth’s 2nd visit

Beth came back for round two. This time for two hours.

Knowing what I had come to learn about her, I thought she’d enjoy more spanking. Not only for potential eroticism but also as something that could be therapeutic for her. So, I decided to give her a more immersive experience with it. I instructed her to lay across my lap and I gave her a thorough bare-handed spanking.

Then, of course, there was more tickling. Which has both of us literally rolling on the floor. She kept trying to writhe away from me…and I kept dragging her back. The laughter was infectious.

I then introduced her to flogging. Varying and building sensations. She surprised me with how much she took for her first time.

And, like that, two hours was up.

Later that evening, she sent me this email:

“I got home a little while ago and although I spent the entire car ride back trying to figure out how to thank you properly,  I am still at a loss for the right words.  
This has been a very rough month for me. My depression and anxiety have been unrelenting. I’ve had a constant tightness in my chest and all my nerve endings felt like they were on fire, everything hurt.  But then I came to see you and for some reason  by some miracle, you managed to quiet all the noise in my head and all I was thinking about or focused on was what was happening in that room today.  I felt safe and protected and cared for and I don’t know how to thank you for that.
I really appreciated everything you did today and I actually enjoyed it too. You make it easier to try to push my boundaries and try new things. I was so worried that last time was a fluke and I was afraid to believe in the positive things I felt afterward, because I didn’t want to be disappointed or let down. And then I came today and now I know it’s definitely not a fluke. I feel even more certain that you are going to be able to help me make the changes I need to make in my life, if you will allow me to keep coming back.  I trust you and would really like you to continue to guide me through this journey, if you are willing. 
Thank you so much Mistress.”
Then, the next day she shared:
“For the first time in a month, i slept soundly thru the night and didn’t feel exhausted when i woke up. And today, I’ve just been thinking of everything i felt and experienced yesterday. For two hours i didn’t feel broken or defective or afraid. I don’t know how you did that, but i am so, so grateful!”
A big grin took over my face when I read this. I am so happy for her!
I look forward to wherever we may go next time!

My trip to Europe

I recently vacationed for 10 days in Europe. The itinerary was: Amsterdam, Prague, Berlin, and London.

After a connection in Dublin, I landed in Amsterdam.

I spent the afternoon dealing with some jet lag, but then ventured out and walked to the Red Light District.

It’s very rude to take photos of the women while they’re working, so I’ll only give you a glimpse of a couple of windows behind Me.

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I visited the Museum of Prostitution.

There were many placards throughout. Such as this one:

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Sex workers don’t like trafficking either. (Don’t let anyone try to convince you that sex work is the same as sex trafficking.)

According to this museum, when women get “older”, they may choose to become ‘SM mistresses”. Obviously, many women of younger ages always preferred working in BDSM.

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There was a room dedicated to the “SM Mistress”. It included a sling…

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…a St. Andrew’s Cross…

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…a wall of basic implements…

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…and a standing cage (which I thought I took a photo of but apparently did not).

The Cross included this warning:

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The victim’s arms and legs are now spread wide and the mistress is free to do as she wishes” Music to My ears!

Here is “The Story of Kelly”:

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While I’ve never provided the type of services implied here, I feel very confident that being a Dominatrix couldn’t possibly be less physically demanding. I would say it may just be differently physically demanding.

There were some quotes from workers that had been painted on the wall:

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I agree with both. This and all other forms of sex work are important work and therapeutic for many. It’s also not for wimps.

On another wall were “confessions”. The museum provides blank cards on which visitors can write their erotic secrets. Then, they are posted for everyone to read. Here is one that We Dommes hear regularly:

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I loved this one:

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The next day, I went to Demask…

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So much rubber and not enough Euros!

I did buy something, though. It will show up in a photo shoot soon.

About an hour or so after this photo was taken I began feeling very ill and rushed back to My hotel. I spent the next 24 hours dreadfully ill with food poisoning. The 24 after that I began feeling better but couldn’t eat much. As a result, I had to cancel My trip to Prague and wait it out in My hotel room.

So, I went directly to Berlin instead.

I was greeted in baggage claim with this sign:

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It almost made up for the insanely slow process of getting My bags. (The plane was literally 200 feet from the claim area, but it somehow took like 45 minutes.)

I appreciated this advert for “Dildo King”:

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Shortly thereafter, I saw another:

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Thank you, Berlin, for so openly accepting ads for dildos — and right next to “apartments for sale”. <3

Also, the universal impulse to draw-on nipples:

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I visited Peter Dominie…

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They have a lovely store…

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…where I would have bought a couple of things, but, sadly, they did not have My size. (The woman working was very helpful, though!)

Then, I went to Mister B. (I forgot to take a photo of the exterior, so excited I was to get inside.)

I had a fantastic experience at the Paris location, so I was looking forward to what I might find.

I had another excellent experience in Berlin and picked up a few things to add to Temenos:

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A PVC flogger, a lightweight rubber flogger, and a neoprene open-jaw mask.

That evening, I went to My fourth Roger Waters show for his Us + Them tour. This time I got first row. It was incredible. My favorite of the four. The Berlin audience was friendly and radiated good energy.

There were a few changes from the US leg, one was that during the intermission there were examples of things to #Resist from:

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I do enjoy rewarding torture, so, I’m sorry, Mr. Waters, but this one I will have to politely decline. 😉

The next day I headed to London.

Not much kink to report (I did have an almost erotic experience with a delicious veggie burger at Honest Burgers in Soho), but I did engage in My fetish for historical buildings and again walked around Westminster Abbey, this time stopping in the little Jewel Tower tucked behind.

This is one of the windows from this modest 14-century building:

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If you’re My subject, you belong on your knees.

;>

Looking forward to My next trip, where I’ll get to really indulge in My historical building fetish: Rome and Athens next year!

The continued training of slave m

Dear Mistress Tissa:

i would like to begin by saying “thank You” for another amazing session.   As is always the case, O/our sessions are equally intense and enjoyable for me.  This one was no different.  i hope that You were pleased and satisfied with the way i served You on this day.

Thank You for the time You spent prior to O/our session, checking in with me on my well-being both emotionally and physically.  It is very satisfying to know that i am the devoted slave of a dominatrix who is not only highly skilled and knowledgeable in BDSM, but also cares very much about Her subs’ emotional and physical well-being.  It is very comforting to know that i am in the capable hands of a such a sincere practitioner of Her vocation.

As previously stated, O/our most recent session was extremely intense and equally enjoyable, with two different scenarios that took place where You beat my ass with various types of instruments of discipline.  At various times You used Your powerful hands…

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…two different new paddles that you were breaking in on me, (by the way, the wooden one stung the most), floggers, whips, and two wooden canes, were all harshly applied to my back, but mostly to my ass.

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As is always the case it was an extremely enjoyable experience for me being at the complete mercy of a beautiful and skilled Dominatrix.  But, what made it so much more satisfying was the fact that You took the time to continue my training on effectively accepting and enjoying the beating that You were administering.  And, i cannot thank You enough for the lessons You have taught me on being a more receptive pain slut for You.  Instructing me on being more receptive to the discipline You administer by focusing on accepting each blow as more of a sensation, instead of “just pain,” has helped me to more fully enjoy these pleasurable experiences to the fullest.  i was better able to stay in the moment and focus on accepting Your discipline as a sensation to  be enjoyed, as opposed to pain that simply must be endured.  Even the final three blows you administered to my ass with the very large cane were manageable, but more importantly, exciting and enjoyable.   This was mainly due to the clear and purposeful suggestions You gave me on managing and accepting the intensity of the situation.  When You asked me if i could handle the final three intense blows that You were planning to administer, i knew that i could, because at that point i was well trained on accepting each blow as a sensation to be appreciated and savored.  Your expertise in Domination is unparalleled in my opinion and something that i truly admire.

I cannot thank You enough Mistress Tissa for teaching me how to better accept and enjoy the pain/pleasure that You administer to me during O/our sessions, and

for being so patient with me as You train me to be a better slave to You, and

for applying those amazing “healing hands” of Yours to my most sore areas during O/our recent session, and

for helping me to come to the realization that i truly love submitting to any pain that You inflict on me during O/our sessions because i derive tremendous pleasure from experiencing that sensation, but more importantly (to me) because  of the pleasure it affords You, and

for being  such a beautiful and amazing Goddess and allowing me the privilege of worshipping You as a “devoted slave”.

Sincerely,

slave m

slave m neglected to mention that the entire context of our session was about allowing one’s self to enter deep levels of submission through certain activities. We have been exploring sensation processing and how it relates to submission.

Also, slave m continues to be generous with his compliments. I don’t think My expertise in Domination is “unparalleled”, but I do consider Myself an expert in power dynamics/exchange and the psychology thereof.

For the record: The photo of his reddened bottom is only after I had spanked and paddled it. The other implements came after I took him off My lap.