Mistress Tissa’s Dix Flags

Welcome, thrill-seekers!

Step right up into my sleep sack, where I will fully strap you in so you can’t move a muscle (for safety reasons, of course)…

…but I’ll leave your tiny dick out so I can hurt it. And the thrill is — there is nothing you can do about it!

A very popular attraction is our very own “The Iron Mistress”:

Sometimes, at Dix Flags, “accidents” happen…

Now it’s time for your balls to take a spin on the Rubber Flogger! Fast, slow, hard, or soft — you never know what’s next!

Our last stop is the whirling tails of the Double Devil! Ouch, that’s gotta hurt!

Come back and offer your body up to be my amusement park again soon!

Kaladhar serves

Kaladhar said he wanted to serve and be owned by someone like me: a genuine, strong Dominant woman.

This is something I believe most men would benefit from.

I began the process of stripping him of his identity. Who he believed he is was no longer relevant.

Usually a man’s penis is significant part of his identity. So, I took that away from him. It belonged to me now.

But sometimes chastity alone is not enough.

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I wanted to reinforce my possession of him.

Then it was time for the beating.

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He is coming along nicely.

sub c subjects himself to my cruelty…again

sub c is from out of state and isn’t in Philly much, but he happened to be visiting only a month after he was here last. “[I] cannot resist the opportunity to session with You again,” he wrote in a message to me.

When we first spoke, sub c told me he wanted pain. While he used the word “masochist” to describe himself, what that meant to him wasn’t the conventional definition. But I understood it. And I turned it over in my head as I thought about our first, and now 2nd scene.

He also emphasized the importance of the psychological component. And of needing to be humiliated and degraded. I told him those are some of my specialties.

Aside from the overlap of his main interests with some of my specialties, sub c is the kind of player I especially delight in: he actually has a sincere interest in giving up control to me, he’s very much open to my vision and to being pushed, and he enjoys thoughtful consideration of the scene.

Doesn’t he look good here? Mmm…good enough to beat!

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I loved our session and had deeply satisfying moments of Domspace.  I can get really creative when I feel like someone isn’t afraid of being challenged, trusts me and my skills, and is genuinely surrendering to me.

He wrote me this a couple of days later:

“Thank you for another session that was more than I could have hoped for. There is so much that is packed in to a session with you that it takes me days or weeks to fully appreciate what you created.

In particular, it has been fascinating for me to process [one of the scene activities]. In the moment, I was mentally frustrated. It was within my limits but definitely not something I would have fantasized about or asked for. …

As I process, I begin to see the genius in what you created. You took me to a place where I was experiencing exactly what I was requesting, submission of my will to yours. I was not pretending it was happening, it was actually happening and the mental frustration of the moment was an essential component.

I love that you challenge me and that you are thoughtful and creative with the methods and mediums that you use to push. I think in some ways that the mental suffering I went through feels now like a more authentic way of being hurt since there was a bit of a time gap before I was able to contextualize the situation and ultimately get satisfaction from it.

I’m sure more revelations will come as I continue to sort things out, but I just wanted to let you know I am in awe of your sorcery.”

Thank you, sub c! I hope to adventure with you again soon!

Spending the day with R

I had the pleasure of welcoming R to Temenos recently. We spent the day together which really allowed us to become immersed in our experience.

Though R consented to photos, I didn’t take many. I was too focused on what was happening. Here’s one moment when I had him immobilized in a body bag with layers of rope, straps, and chains. Of course, I couldn’t help but take advantage of such enticing defenselessness and took my time torturing his nipples (et cetera).

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I could detail much of what we did, but instead I’ll share with you some of what he emailed me the next day:

Dear Mistress

Thank you so much for the fabulous session yesterday.
I think you know that I loved every minute.
The session went beyond my wildest dreams. … I’ve been playing for 30 years and have been visiting professional Dommes from 2 to 4 times a year in the US and Europe. I have some chronic medical issues but still love to play.
… I’ve never before had my limits pushed so close to the yellow level without quite going there. My nipples will never be the same and are already asking for more!
The meal with e-stim was great fun for me and seeing you grinning as you increased the level while I was trying to make conversation made my day.
I loved you “Domme” outfit and every minute of play.

It takes a truly extraordinary Dominatrix to plan and expedite play at the highest level for many hours. … You are a true artist and simply incredible

Looking forward to seeing you and Phoebe again next year.

Thank you
R

He also brought me these thoughtful gifts:

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A pretty scarf with fringe and some food for the strays I care for.

Thank you, R! Safe travels and looking forward to next time!