Kaladhar said he wanted to serve and be owned by someone like me: a genuine, strong Dominant woman.
This is something I believe most men would benefit from.
I began the process of stripping him of his identity. Who he believed he is was no longer relevant.
Usually a man’s penis is significant part of his identity. So, I took that away from him. It belonged to me now.
But sometimes chastity alone is not enough.
I wanted to reinforce my possession of him.
Then it was time for the beating.
He is coming along nicely.
When I had tightened the last strap and laid out of my implements before him…
I commanded him to look at me while I repeatedly struck his most vulnerable parts.
Though his head was encased in a hood, I could see his eyes. I wanted to see the fear in his eyes.
sub c is from out of state and isn’t in Philly much, but he happened to be visiting only a month after he was here last. “[I] cannot resist the opportunity to session with You again,” he wrote in a message to me.
When we first spoke, sub c told me he wanted pain. While he used the word “masochist” to describe himself, what that meant to him wasn’t the conventional definition. But I understood it. And I turned it over in my head as I thought about our first, and now 2nd scene.
He also emphasized the importance of the psychological component. And of needing to be humiliated and degraded. I told him those are some of my specialties.
Aside from the overlap of his main interests with some of my specialties, sub c is the kind of player I especially delight in: he actually has a sincere interest in giving up control to me, he’s very much open to my vision and to being pushed, and he enjoys thoughtful consideration of the scene.
Doesn’t he look good here? Mmm…good enough to beat!
I loved our session and had deeply satisfying moments of Domspace. I can get really creative when I feel like someone isn’t afraid of being challenged, trusts me and my skills, and is genuinely surrendering to me.
He wrote me this a couple of days later:
“Thank you for another session that was more than I could have hoped for. There is so much that is packed in to a session with you that it takes me days or weeks to fully appreciate what you created.
In particular, it has been fascinating for me to process [one of the scene activities]. In the moment, I was mentally frustrated. It was within my limits but definitely not something I would have fantasized about or asked for. …
As I process, I begin to see the genius in what you created. You took me to a place where I was experiencing exactly what I was requesting, submission of my will to yours. I was not pretending it was happening, it was actually happening and the mental frustration of the moment was an essential component.
I love that you challenge me and that you are thoughtful and creative with the methods and mediums that you use to push. I think in some ways that the mental suffering I went through feels now like a more authentic way of being hurt since there was a bit of a time gap before I was able to contextualize the situation and ultimately get satisfaction from it.
I’m sure more revelations will come as I continue to sort things out, but I just wanted to let you know I am in awe of your sorcery.”
Thank you, sub c! I hope to adventure with you again soon!
I had the pleasure of welcoming R to Temenos recently. We spent the day together which really allowed us to become immersed in our experience.
Though R consented to photos, I didn’t take many. I was too focused on what was happening. Here’s one moment when I had him immobilized in a body bag with layers of rope, straps, and chains. Of course, I couldn’t help but take advantage of such enticing defenselessness and took my time torturing his nipples (et cetera).
I could detail much of what we did, but instead I’ll share with you some of what he emailed me the next day:
Thank you so much for the fabulous session yesterday.
I think you know that I loved every minute.
The session went beyond my wildest dreams. … I’ve been playing for 30 years and have been visiting professional Dommes from 2 to 4 times a year in the US and Europe. I have some chronic medical issues but still love to play.
… I’ve never before had my limits pushed so close to the yellow level without quite going there. My nipples will never be the same and are already asking for more!
The meal with e-stim was great fun for me and seeing you grinning as you increased the level while I was trying to make conversation made my day.
I loved you “Domme” outfit and every minute of play.
It takes a truly extraordinary Dominatrix to plan and expedite play at the highest level for many hours. … You are a true artist and simply incredible
Looking forward to seeing you and Phoebe again next year.
He also brought me these thoughtful gifts:
A pretty scarf with fringe and some food for the strays I care for.
Thank you, R! Safe travels and looking forward to next time!
I received this gift from a submissive, who I will have the pleasure of spending the day with in the near future:
“Dear Ms. Tissa, The hood is a gift for Temenos.” (letter blurred for privacy reasons)
It is a very nice soft canvas whose design makes it perfect for a kidnap. 😉
Thank you, sub r!
sissy slave s scheduled an audience with Me this weekend and before the session he asked what from My wishlist I would most like. I told him what I most wanted was not on My list. I gave him an option of My top two things. I was impressed that, without hesitation, he selected the more expensive of the two. And he immediately sent this toward the gift:
Like a good slave, he provided the remainder when he saw Me.
Now, for this scene, we played in another dungeon. This was a nice change of pace and allowed for some different options.
After having some fun with him on the cross, where I could see on his face how quickly I had him slipping under My spell, I moved My sissy bitch to the table, tightly tied him down, and continued the punishment he needed.
There’s a lot I could detail here, about how I humiliated and degraded him, how I made him wimper and beg, and how I became excited when I thought he might be crying, but instead I’ll just leave you with a lovely shot of his red, swollen ass after I hit him with a few floggers, straps, a cane, and a handful of lashes from My single tail.
He made a good impression on Me…so I made a good impression on him.
Afterward he sent Me this:
“I just want to say thank you for that wonderful session and for puting me in my place yesterday mistress. Hope to session with you again soon.”
Would you believe this slut is already asking for the date he can come back?
When subP came last, I was in an unusual mood.
I’m usually a more serious type who enjoys intensity in My sessions.
But this time, I felt less Hard Domme and more casual. More Zen.
I informed her of this. she was on board with this energy.
In turn, she told Me that she had been reflecting on a question I asked her maybe a month ago. And her reflection lead her to wondering if she’d ever truly submitted.
So, she made it a goal to completely let go.
Our moods seemed complementary. We had three hours together and it seemed we both wanted to deeply relax into our scene.
I told her to stand…where I, like the perv I am, took the opportunity to shove My camera under her skirt…
I’m not sure if she blushed. 😉
I then lead her to My bondage table where I got to work immobilizing her with rope, straps, cords, opera gloves, and even more rope. Next, came her head.
I went over to My shelves of hoods.
My eyes passed over each one until they rested on one in particular.
I asked her if she’d ever worn a latex hood.
The decision was made.
Then, while all but her latex-encased head was immobilized, I began sending a soft purr of electricity through Her clitty…
Then, a bit more…
…and then jolts.
At which point, she yelled out in a mixture of pain and pleasure. Sometimes an “ahhh!” or “ughhhh!”, sometimes a “yes, Misssstresssss!”
…and at which point, I shoved a gag in her gaping mouth.
Once I was finished, I peeled the latex off.
“How did you like the hood?”
“I loved it,” she smiled.
I’m very glad she did because I see more latex in our future…
(The rest of the session will remain a memory for Me and subP.)
After our session, she sent Me this message:
I want you to know how very special this evening was for me. You made the time pass so quickly, and orchestrated the session so perfectly. I appreciate the care you exhibited. I have never felt so cared for during a scene. I was at ease and therefore I was able to free my mind and let You guide us. Thank you so much for allowing me to serve You. I feel honored.
Thank you, subP!
I hope you all do something sexy with someone today — even if it’s just yourself! (You can have A LOT of fun by yourself.)
I love this locked-up, cocksucking fairy cupid and had to share! LOL!
(Image courtesy of MistressMalice.com)