Kaladhar serves

Kaladhar said he wanted to serve and be owned by someone like me: a genuine, strong Dominant woman.

This is something I believe most men would benefit from.

I began the process of stripping him of his identity. Who he believed he is was no longer relevant.

Usually a man’s penis is significant part of his identity. So, I took that away from him. It belonged to me now.

But sometimes chastity alone is not enough.

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I wanted to reinforce my possession of him.

Then it was time for the beating.

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He is coming along nicely.

sub c subjects himself to my cruelty…again

sub c is from out of state and isn’t in Philly much, but he happened to be visiting only a month after he was here last. “[I] cannot resist the opportunity to session with You again,” he wrote in a message to me.

When we first spoke, sub c told me he wanted pain. While he used the word “masochist” to describe himself, what that meant to him wasn’t the conventional definition. But I understood it. And I turned it over in my head as I thought about our first, and now 2nd scene.

He also emphasized the importance of the psychological component. And of needing to be humiliated and degraded. I told him those are some of my specialties.

Aside from the overlap of his main interests with some of my specialties, sub c is the kind of player I especially delight in: he actually has a sincere interest in giving up control to me, he’s very much open to my vision and to being pushed, and he enjoys thoughtful consideration of the scene.

Doesn’t he look good here? Mmm…good enough to beat!

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I loved our session and had deeply satisfying moments of Domspace.  I can get really creative when I feel like someone isn’t afraid of being challenged, trusts me and my skills, and is genuinely surrendering to me.

He wrote me this a couple of days later:

“Thank you for another session that was more than I could have hoped for. There is so much that is packed in to a session with you that it takes me days or weeks to fully appreciate what you created.

In particular, it has been fascinating for me to process [one of the scene activities]. In the moment, I was mentally frustrated. It was within my limits but definitely not something I would have fantasized about or asked for. …

As I process, I begin to see the genius in what you created. You took me to a place where I was experiencing exactly what I was requesting, submission of my will to yours. I was not pretending it was happening, it was actually happening and the mental frustration of the moment was an essential component.

I love that you challenge me and that you are thoughtful and creative with the methods and mediums that you use to push. I think in some ways that the mental suffering I went through feels now like a more authentic way of being hurt since there was a bit of a time gap before I was able to contextualize the situation and ultimately get satisfaction from it.

I’m sure more revelations will come as I continue to sort things out, but I just wanted to let you know I am in awe of your sorcery.”

Thank you, sub c! I hope to adventure with you again soon!

Spending the day with R

I had the pleasure of welcoming R to Temenos recently. We spent the day together which really allowed us to become immersed in our experience.

Though R consented to photos, I didn’t take many. I was too focused on what was happening. Here’s one moment when I had him immobilized in a body bag with layers of rope, straps, and chains. Of course, I couldn’t help but take advantage of such enticing defenselessness and took my time torturing his nipples (et cetera).

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I could detail much of what we did, but instead I’ll share with you some of what he emailed me the next day:

Dear Mistress

Thank you so much for the fabulous session yesterday.
I think you know that I loved every minute.
The session went beyond my wildest dreams. … I’ve been playing for 30 years and have been visiting professional Dommes from 2 to 4 times a year in the US and Europe. I have some chronic medical issues but still love to play.
… I’ve never before had my limits pushed so close to the yellow level without quite going there. My nipples will never be the same and are already asking for more!
The meal with e-stim was great fun for me and seeing you grinning as you increased the level while I was trying to make conversation made my day.
I loved you “Domme” outfit and every minute of play.

It takes a truly extraordinary Dominatrix to plan and expedite play at the highest level for many hours. … You are a true artist and simply incredible

Looking forward to seeing you and Phoebe again next year.

Thank you
R

He also brought me these thoughtful gifts:

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A pretty scarf with fringe and some food for the strays I care for.

Thank you, R! Safe travels and looking forward to next time!

A new slave who knows how to make an impression (and so do I)

sissy slave s scheduled an audience with Me this weekend and before the session he asked what from My wishlist I would most like. I told him what I most wanted was not on My list. I gave him an option of My top two things. I was impressed that, without hesitation, he selected the more expensive of the two. And he immediately sent this toward the gift:

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Like a good slave, he provided the remainder when he saw Me.

Now, for this scene, we played in another dungeon. This was a nice change of pace and allowed for some different options.

After having some fun with him on the cross, where I could see on his face how quickly I had him slipping under My spell, I moved My sissy bitch to the table, tightly tied him down, and continued the punishment he needed.

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There’s a lot I could detail here, about how I humiliated and degraded him, how I made him wimper and beg, and how I became excited when I thought he might be crying, but instead I’ll just leave you with a lovely shot of his red, swollen ass after I hit him with a few floggers, straps, a cane, and a handful of lashes from My single tail.

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He made a good impression on Me…so I made a good impression on him.

Afterward he sent Me this:

“I just want to say thank you for that wonderful session and for puting me in my place yesterday mistress. Hope to session with you again soon.”

Would you believe this slut is already asking for the date he can come back?

she came to surrender

When subP came last, I was in an unusual mood.

I’m usually a more serious type who enjoys intensity in My sessions.

But this time, I felt less Hard Domme and more casual. More Zen.

I informed her of this. she was on board with this energy.

In turn, she told Me that she had been reflecting on a question I asked her maybe a month ago. And her reflection lead her to wondering if she’d ever truly submitted.

So, she made it a goal to completely let go.

Our moods seemed complementary. We had three hours together and it seemed we both wanted to deeply relax into our scene.

I told her to stand…where I, like the perv I am, took the opportunity to shove My camera under  her skirt…

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I’m not sure if she blushed. 😉

I then lead her to My bondage table where I got to work immobilizing her with rope, straps, cords, opera gloves, and even more rope. Next, came her head.

I went over to My shelves of hoods.

My eyes passed over each one until they rested on one in particular.

I asked her if she’d ever worn a latex hood.

“No, Mistress.”

The decision was made.

Then, while all but her latex-encased head was immobilized, I began sending a soft purr of electricity through Her clitty…

Then, a bit more…

….and more…

…and then jolts.

At which point, she yelled out in a mixture of pain and pleasure. Sometimes an “ahhh!” or “ughhhh!”, sometimes a “yes, Misssstresssss!”

…and at which point, I shoved a gag in her gaping mouth.

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Once I was finished, I peeled the latex off.

“How did you like the hood?”

“I loved it,” she smiled.

I’m very glad she did because I see more latex in our future…

(The rest of the session will remain a memory for Me and subP.)

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After our session, she sent Me this message:

“Mistress Tissa,

I want you to know how very special this evening was for me. You made the time pass so quickly, and orchestrated the session so perfectly. I appreciate the care you exhibited. I have never felt so cared for during a scene. I was at ease and therefore I was able to free my mind and let You guide us. Thank you so much for allowing me to serve You. I feel honored.

[subP]”

Thank you, subP!

Back from London and Paris

I decided that I wanted My trip to focus on historical sites, as I have an interest in European history. I visited the Tower of London, Westminster Abbey, L’Arc de Triomphe, the Eiffel Tower, Notre Dame, and the Louvre. I could have accomplished more (palaces, cathedrals, catacombs, museums, etc) but, between My preference to become saturated by the experience rather than blow through it and the exhausting nature of walking around for hours and hours, I opted for quality over quantity.

I usually like to keep My blog’s content related to things of a kinky and erotic nature, so I won’t go into too much general detail and instead keep the highlights relevant.

My first stop was the Tower of London, which I had wanted to visit for many years.

From the White Tower, we have some shackles, only removable by a blacksmith (safewords won’t do you any good here, My sluts):

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…and a “Scavenger’s Daughter”, which, oddly, seems to be a name shared by two different devices:

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(Note to self: see if I can acquire this for Temenos)

For you Golden and Brown fetishists, here is a Norman Garderobe:

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Imagine your face under there, toilets! Consuming the waste of Queens and Kings!

(Of course I searched the walls for “bathroom” graffiti, but, alas, found nothing.)

In King Edward I’s bed chamber was this plaque:

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See: the desire of powerful men to offer their submission to women through erotic games is not a new invention. (Note the use of money in power exchange.)

Detail from a carving on L’Arc de Triomphe:

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An expression of submission? Trust? Devotion?

A marble throne from the Louvre:

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…which I think I would look rather good sitting on.

Columns made of Goddesses:

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(Women holding things up, as usual!)

Ares, you may be the God of War, but your penis won’t be winning any battles:

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(Perhaps a timeless example of how men use war to make up for smaller things?)

And My personal goddess when I was around 8-10 years old, Athena:

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(No, really: I read all about Her as a child and paid homage by dressing up as Her for “your favorite book character” day at school, including painting My round, snow sled gold to be My shield and borrowing a teacher’s flag pole to be My spear. I wish I had pictures!)

I also did some shopping and added some hoods and a mask to My collection:

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A latex hood with eyes and mouth, a neoprene hood with gas mask, a neoprene double hood, and a cat mask for Me (I have a latex version but wanted vinyl as well).

I had an amazing time but I’m happy to be home and ready to have fun with all you subs and sluts!