Testimonial from Luke

“First of all, let me say I was so happy to be back in Your presence!  You are as delightful, elegant, and gracious a hostess as ever.

And devious.  This session was absolutely unique and fantastic!  Everything was unexpected, … You played with some fetishes I didn’t even know I had … You played with my sense of reality were otherworldly.  

The good news for me is, You ALWAYS know where to go next.  Every time I think You’ve plunged me as low as I can go, You find some new way to wring out the last vestiges of pride and self-respect that might be hiding in the corners of my mind.  This was complete debasement.  It was terribly humiliating.  By which I mean greatly humiliating.  By which I mean awesomely humiliating.  And after all of that, my…having the privilege of kissing Your perfect, fetish-inducing feet was the final irony.  

(I will take this opportunity to lodge a formal protest regarding the beauty of Your feet. I will repeat to my death that I am NOT a foot fetishist!!!! …but [sigh] I think I’m…uhh… starting to understand. Dammit!)

In summary, I just want to thank You again for the magical, sublime (yet very REAL) experiences that you provide.  My senses are left tingling, and I’m left shaking my head in awe of what has just happened.  Sessioning with You is a privilege unlike any other.”

Thank you, Luke! You are an absolute delight to session with. I can’t wait for our next adventure!

And thank you for your generous gift!

Cleansing Luke

Luke needed another attitude adjustment. And I was just the person to give it.

Thorough discipline. Physically, mentally, emotionally.

Total Dominance. Mind, body, and soul.

Then, he needed to be tied…


…in a configuration befitting the sacrifice of body and mind for his greater good.


His legs were bound next.

Then, a final “lesson”, which I’m sure will stick with him for a very long time: cleansing through dehumanization.

When we emerged from My Temenos, it was clear a shift had indeed taken place.

During this visit, he offered this lovely card and gift:


Then, later sent these very thoughtful and kind words:

Forgive me, but I am having trouble putting into words how incredible our session was. … I will take this moment to thank You for Your aftercare patience, as You clearly sensed I was a bit off-kilter – and stunned by even being off-kilter. I still am…but please bear with me, as I feel compelled to capture and express this “moment”, as it were.

Our first session was mind-blowing. And frankly, I came into today thinking about proving how much more I could take (to whom, I don’t know…). Anyway, You changed all of that very quickly. First, I was not at all prepared for the weaknesses You extracted from me. As I started to reflect… the dynamics of the session took a very sharp turn, and I was completely disarmed. I fell into subspace quite early, which is a slight surprise, but I guess we both already know You can that to me.

However, what happened in the last 30 minutes of our session was completely unprecedented. I’d [highlighted] an abstract picture of “ego death”…a while ago. It seemed like a great ‘stretch goal’, as the corporate types are wont to say. I never contemplated that You could bring this upon me in one session, let alone our very next session.

It makes me reflect upon what is so very unique about You. You are intimidatingly cerebral, as I mentioned…yet…unexpectedly intuitive – a terribly potent combination. Moreover, to use a word I offered in session, You are truly authentic.

Today, You took me to unfamiliar places. You dangled me there, right on the edge of submission and panic, over and over again. Yet you never caused me to want or need to safeword. Somehow, through 90 minutes, You taught me both submission and trust, as every time I felt I couldn’t take any more, it was Your hand that picked me back up.

And then, the final 30 minutes.

The cynical, obsessively analytical part of me desperately wants to understand what happened. What I can recall was that you tied me like an object, and I’ve never before felt so helpless. I was also stunned at your strength…. But the main thing I recall – and it is reminiscent of our first mind-blowing session – is Your relentlessness. Every time I thought it was over – that I had survived, or that You were satisfied – You came back for more. Every time I tried to piece things together, You came and shattered the puzzle anew. I was completely at Your mercy, physically and emotionally, and then…everything…just…slowed down…

…such that by the time [the session was ending], I feel like I was finally sipping from that Holy Grail we subs call being “broken”. Yet…I didn’t feel at all damaged. I felt – oddly – in a state of nearly perfect peace. I lay there, nearly devoid of thought, taking in Your words and Your dominance, accepting them with no resistance. Even as You thoughtfully brought me back from subspace, I was having trouble distinguishing Your words from my own thoughts. It was truly disorienting, in a way that I have never before experienced.

Again, I thank You for everything – for Your thoughtfulness and professionalism and the trust these engender, for Your intellect, intuition, and intensity, and for allowing me to again be a canvas for your indelible signature.

Thank you, Luke!! You are a joy.

Surprise gifts

Yesterday, I received a “thinking of you” Amazon gift card for $50 from slut b. This is very useful. Thank you, slut b!

Today, on Twitter, I mentioned that I lost My favorite cane. It wasn’t especially fancy or custom made, but I used it in a lot of sessions and I got a whole range of play out of it — from sensual to sadistic. It was definitely one of My go-to toys.

Well, Luke obviously read this and swiftly sent Me a generous gift toward its replacement.


Thank you, Luke!

You both have brightened My day!


Giving Thanks

This has been an up and down year for Me. Ultimately gratifying, but unpredictable. This comes with being a pro Domme full time.

Never really knowing what’s around the corner makes Me especially grateful of those who have shown support of Me and what I do in tangible ways.

While I always appreciate those who engage My writing, photos, jokes, rants, etc and extend their compliments, it’s those who show Me they are willing to offer more than just words by booking a session (whether it was one or thirty), offering a gift, or sending a tribute. Because as sweet as compliments can be they aren’t what allows Me to continue the joy of being a Dominatrix and share these amazing experiences with you all.

So, I want to sincerely thank all of you who have done just that.

Extra Special Thanks goes to:

slave john, an incredibly thoughtful and generous person who has offered things to Me, My cats, My home, My dungeon, along with many heart-warming words, and who I am absolutely delighted chooses to visit Me.

slave m, who, despite not serving Me in-person anymore, continues to send many wonderful gifts and exceedingly kind words.

sub p, whose kind, gentle soul and amiable demeanor provides soothing relief — both in and out of the dungeon — in an otherwise demanding and stressful line of work.

Luke, who wrote a very touching review of our amazing session, shows support through Twitter by commenting on and retweeting My thoughts, and sent a lovely birthday gift.

pauletta, who has been a support for almost eight years now, and who sends lovely gifts to Me.


Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!


Mistress Tissa

Correcting Luke

I welcomed Luke to Mistress Tissa’s Correctional Training Program this week.

He made a very good impression by bringing this charming card:


…and inside was a lovely note of appreciation and tip:


This is one of My specialties: training the insolent male.

Given the extent of his condition, I did not go easy on him.

He needed a thorough work-though of his mind and body. He needed to know the errors of his ways.

When all was said and done, I think I made an impression on him.

“I am at a loss for words.

Okay, that’s a complete lie. I’m overflowing with words, emotions, and sensations – to such an extent that whatever I would write would probably sound over the top. Mistress Tissa has already taught me the folly and consequences of running off at the mouth, so let me be brief:

Mistress Tissa is absolutely incredible, exemplifying the title of Professional Domme. Her pre-session screening was extremely thorough and thoughtful, and established a great deal of mutual respect and trust between us. Having been…uhhh…around a bit, I already found this to be unique, notable, and very welcome. By the time I arrived, I really had no questions or concerns – just anticipation and excitement.

That excitement was fully justified.

It quickly became apparent that Mistress Tissa had read me like a book – which is uncanny, because sometimes I feel like I struggle to understand myself. Our session was so fluid, natural, and powerful that I’m still shuddering from the crescendo. I thought I was prepared, but Her height and beauty are intimidating and distracting, Her methods are devious, and Her presence is all-encompassing.

I have only begun to learn my lessons at Her feet. I humbly submit to whatever correction and humiliation She deems appropriate for the further expansion of my consciousness.




[Source: Max Fisch]