Plagiarism Wall of Shame: Queen Afia Savage (Updated)

This appears to be a Domme in Atlanta.

Once again, I just randomly picked a sentence from my FAQ and found that she had taken several questions from my website. She also looks like she’s modeled a couple of other things from my work.

A couple of examples:

Because it’s hard to explain for yourself why you require them.

How does it make you feel as a client or potential client knowing a Domme had to copy someone else about knowing how to keep you safe?

If you want to read more, go to her site:

They won’t be there much longer. Either because my warning to her is heeded or because I end up having to have her site taken down for copyright infringement.

Update: She replied by stating a “third party” did her site. I asked her who it was. So far, she has not replied.

Update 2: She said it was a designer that appears to be located in India. However, the website and portfolio are missing. Which leads me to say: like booking a session with a Domme, you have to do your due diligence when hiring someone to work on any aspect of your business. No portfolio? Pass. No website? Pass. From an impoverished country? Be careful. Scams abound.

Update 3: She removed my work and apologized, saying she didn’t know it was mine. I’m giving her the benefit of the doubt, but I do question that she would honestly think that my writing sounded like something a random web designer from India wrote. If it were me, that would have set off flags. Especially given the rest of the website they did for her doesn’t look like it matches the quality of the writing.

The Plagiarism Wall Of Shame

Plagiarism. I’ve spoken about it several times before. It’s a regular issue,
because, apparently, I’m so damn awesome that people want to copy me.

I often find my writing, and occasionally my photos, in all sorts of places
online: Dommes’ websites and ads (including, surprisingly, other Philly
Dommes), escort ads, dating profiles (I’m an unwilling Cyrano de Bergerac),
FetLife, Twitter, an interview with a well-known stripper, and even an entire
catfish website that had stolen more than a dozen pages from my site (see a
screenshot below).

I would have never found this if it wasn’t for a kind submissive in Spain who alerted me.

This is an upsetting thing to deal with. My writing is a product of my
unique voice. I put it out there for people to get to know me and to advance my
craft and business. So when people steal it and use it to make themselves look
better (than they clearly are) and make money from my labor it pisses me right
the hell off. It’s also just such a dumb move, showing a lack of awareness that
people may notice and it will make them look bad.

It’s most upsetting when other Dommes do it. Because aside from these being
my colleagues, with whom you’d like to think there’s a certain level of
respect, it’s ostensibly like they’re competing against me (and other women)
with the shit I came up with. LOL!

To help manage my sanity, I vent. And now I think I’m going to document the
times I find people who’ve stolen my work so you both can be alerted to the
fakes and thieves, and understand how pervasive the issue is and how
frustrating and time consuming it can be to deal with. I also hope it educates
those who truly do not understand what plagiarism is.

But, Mistress, isn’t calling people out unprofessional? Rubbish.
The people who are doing it are the unprofessional ones. I have privately and
nicely asked people not to do it several times. I have given vague,
non-identifiable public warnings. It still happens. As jerzeyguy40 said to me
on FetLife, “It’s an inexcusable but inescapable hazard of writing
.” True…but that doesn’t mean I have to be polite about it.

So, here we are: The Plagiarism Wall of Shame. Stealing people’s work is
intellectual property theft. This is violation of copyright law. This means you
can be reported to your web host or advertiser, or even taken to court for it.
Do it and you should expect to be put on notice. I would report all
the copyright infringement I find but that would be a full time job. I do tend
to report on behalf of other Dommes, especially when I see their videos
pirated, as that has a very measurable effect on one’s revenue. (By the way,
this is the primary reason I don’t offer clips for sale. I will have to deal
with even more copyright infringement.)

OK, so what is plagiarism? The most common understanding is taking something
and copying it word for word. I have most commonly experienced with this my FAQ
page. (I guess people can’t come up with their own frequently asked questions?)
One Domme, who was involved in the Order of Indomitus, stole several
of them and put them on her site. When I confronted her, she admitted it had
been there for TWO YEARS. That’s two years of misleading people about
who you are. People read that and thought they were booking the person who
wrote those

This catfisher calling themselves “Indian Mistress Seema” erected a complete website using entire pages from my site while using Mistress Ezada’s photos. It took me four days to get the site taken down.

Here one of my fellow Philadelphia colleagues, who ironically claims to be a “radical permissionist”, didn’t have my permission when she took this from my website:

When Dommes have to steal other Dommes’ work I believe it calls into question anything they have to say about their skill and professionalism.

When confronted she claimed that her mentor told her to do it (a mentor of
whom I could find no record or mention) and that she also thought it was “common copy”. I didn’t buy the story and, for those that don’t know, “common copy” isn’t anything like what I’ve written above, it’s something like
“you must be 21 years of age to enter”. It’s writing so generic that
no one knows who originally wrote it.

There’s also what’s called “mosaic plagiarism”. This is probably
the most common form, as it’s harder to find. As defined by, it’s when someone “steals sentences from a source without using quote marks, or finds synonyms for the author’s language but maintaining the same overall structure and meaning as the original“.

I used this tagline from 2015 to maybe late 2017 or early 2018. Later, I changed “highly” to “top” and “ultra” to “consummate”.
From a Backpage ad in 2017, which, conveniently, was a place I did not advertise.

If you’re thinking, “Well, Mistress, that isn’t that original.” You’re missing the point. Yes, many people have created a sentence adjective noun, adjective noun, and adjective noun, but having another Domme use a sentence structured similarly to mine, at the same time I was using it, while swapping around a couple of words around is the issue. Would I take any action against this Domme? No. That would be ridiculous in this case. But aside from someone lazily taking ideas from me (or others), the lack of originality in doing something like this says something about her as a Domme.

You can also plagiarize people’s ideas. If I come up with something unique, such as my being the Julia Child of CBT (whatever the fuck that means), you should not also say you’re the Julia Child of CBT. I thought this was obvious. I mean, I would never do such a silly thing, so it always surprises me when other’s step up on stage and do just that.

Back shortly after I went pro, I came up with a “fast food” and “McDonalds” analogy for how I don’t practice BDSM. I’ve found like 4 or 5 Dommes who have copied this analogy, using my terms and phrases “McDonald’s-style Domination”, “McDomination”, “McKink”, “Drive-Through/Fast Food Domination/Kink” and other permutations. This has included Dommes that have been around longer than I have and should have their own ideas and brand by now. One of them is very well-known and involved with the Order of Indomitus.

Some Dommes liked my “McDonalds” analogy. I found four people who used it shortly after I started doing it.

Another is something I call “backdoor plagiarism”. If someone else has a name for this I am not aware of it. So, if you know, please tell me. Backdoor plagiarism is more insidious way of copying someone. The person doing it will say things like, “I say that all the time,”, “I was thinking that just this morning,” “I have been doing that for years!” This is a way to attempt to claim “copyright” over something that someone has said or done so they can start saying or doing it and claiming they’ve been saying or doing it all along, knowing it can be difficult if not impossible to prove that someone did or did not do it. Of course people make statements like this and they are actually true, so in order to discern between someone telling the truth and it being backdoor plagiarism you have to figure out if it’s a habit for someone. Have you heard them repeat these kinds of things a lot? Have they produced evidence to support their claims? One Domme started saying things like this to me and I didn’t think much of it until she had done it several times. It got to the point where I knew there was no way she could be saying these things I say so often, especially when some of them were unique to my way of thinking. It just all seemed far too coincidental. I gently asked for evidence. She didn’t come up with any. So, this, combined with seeing a pattern of her recycling my (and possible others’) ideas on her Twitter feed, I began to believe she was a compulsive liar. I eventually caught her copying someone verbatim and confronted her, with the screenshot. I ended up blocked.

An example of what I call “backdoor plagiarism”. This person said this in reply to my tweet in which I say I don’t practice “50 Shades of Bullshit”. I don’t know how someone could have been saying it “forever” when “50 Shades of Gray” came out in like 2015.

Some recents…

Last week I found my writing on the FetLife profile of “Philadelphia Airport Dungeon”. I privately, and civilly, asked them to remove it. It was met with antagonism. I was taunted with, “make us” and “WE ARE NOT YOUR BITCHES Sweetie!” I would copy and paste our private exchange but I don’t think I need to do that, do I? (I convinced them to remove it.)

Now, I just found this moments ago:

I just randomly selected a paragraph from my sessions page, put into Google,
and found this.

The ads above are apparently “Mistress Asia“. I found this phone number on her site, http:///, which also links to this Twitter account, I attempted to email her but it bounced. I would tweet her but because my account is still suspended I can’t. I reported the two ads I found with my work. One was taken down and one is still up . If she has my work anywhere else I have not yet found it.

What’s crazy is that this was the first thing I tried searching for. When the very first paragraph I chose comes up with hits, I ask myself how many other people are out there attracting clients and making coin using my stolen shit?

If you have no interest in my discussing and venting about this not-very-sexy but very real aspect of being a (bad-ass) Dominatrix, then use this as a lesson to help you avoid being mislead or scammed. Before you contact someone to book them, take their writing, put quotes around it, paste it into Google, and see what you come up with. Then try it again without quotes. If you get parts of the paragraph, you may have the kind of plagiarist who is smart enough to mix up their stolen writing so it isn’t as easily found. Either way, you’ve got a thief on your hands. Is that the kind of person you want to put your trust into?

To those who choose to steal other people’s work: May you get what’s coming to you. Hopefully, a short career. Which is very likely if you’re so bad at this that can’t come up with your own content.

To Aspiring and Practicing Pro Dommes

I know that this work can demand a lot from you, and you may feel you can’t do everything, so you look for “help”. You may look for ideas about what to offer, how much to charge, and where to advertise. These are all reasonable things to look for help for. But one thing you have to be careful about is “help” trying to come up with your own brand.

It’s essential your brand is driven from your own inner vision. This means being unique and not using other Dommes’ content — no matter how much you like it. People will notice, and it will not reflect well on you. Not only with other Dommes, who will recognize their own work, but with clients, who may think you must not be very good if you can’t come up with your own ideas.


  • Don’t use someone else’s name. Do a thorough search to make sure there isn’t someone else going by the name you are thinking of using. You don’t want to be confused with someone else — especially if that someone else has a bad reputation.
  • Don’t use signature aspects of someone’s brand. This can be their tagline, symbolism (e.g. a crown in their logo), or even a font they use pervasively. The less overlap you have with other pros, the better it is for you.
  • Do explore your own style and use that to craft your image. What is important to you? What do you really enjoy? If you see someone already doing it, come up with your own way of doing it.

While being inspired is expected, avoid copying at all costs. No one likes a copycat.

Need some personalized help? I offer professional business consulting. Please send a message through my coaching page to set up a call with me. (Ignore the write-up and go right to the form.)

Let’s talk plagiarism…again

I have seen yet another Domme plagiarize Me. I don’t know if this is being done intentionally or in ignorance. Either way, let Me give some examples for any Dommes who are reading My blog and counterfeiting My ideas, or those of another, as their own.

Example: If I say I’m “a highly-reviewed, ultra professional, and bad @$$ Dominatrix” and you say, “I’m a highly professional, well-reviewed, fantastic Dominatrix”, you are doing what’s called “mosaic plagiarism”. You cannot just rearrange someone’s sentence, swap words and consider it your own work.

Another example: If I use an analogy to describe Myself and My work, say that I don’t offer “McDonalds”-, “McDomination”-, “McKink”-, “fast-food”-, “drive-through”-, “pick-up-window”-, and “waitress”-style Domination — all of which I’ve done in My Eros ad and website — your using the same analogy means you are plagiarizing My idea.

I realize that this may be news to some. You may not understand what plagiarism is, exactly. You may think it’s only if you copy something verbatim. It’s not. It’s stealing people’s ideas, not crediting them, and trying to pass them off as your own.

I encourage you to read up on what constitutes plagiarism. It will save you embarrassment (at best) and a lawsuit (at worst). People don’t really like their ideas being stolen by others. My ideas are not fair game for other Dommes to steal and use to sell themselves.

Again, PLEASE stop plagiarizing. It’s in your best interest. You don’t want to look unprofessional and like a person who lacks the creativity to come up with your own material. Think about what that says about you as a Domme and how existing or potential clients will perceive you. Thank you!

Edit: Someone asked Me where this is happening and if they should report people who are plagiarizing. I’ll leave that up to you.

The place I have seen it is in the “Dom & Fetish” section of, where, coincidentally, I don’t advertise.


Dommes, I appreciate that some of you are reading My website and blog, and checking out My adverts, but please do not copy My words and ideas for on your own sites and adverts. Maybe you don’t think I notice. Or maybe you’re not sure what plagiarism is. Here’s a guide:

An example that people may not realize counts is taking someone’s sentence and/or idea and swapping the words. That’s still plagiarism.

I’m flattered that some — especially those who have been doing this professionally for far longer than I have — like My ideas and want to use them yourself, but not only is it unethical, it’s illegal. Please come up with your own content. Thank you.