What Does It Mean To Cancel Same-Day?

One of the banes of a Dominatrix’s existence is same-day cancelations. The reason We loathe this is because it’s guaranteed to cost Us and mess things up. Sometimes in more ways than people may have ever considered.

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Professional BDSM & Confidentiality: It Goes Both Ways

Almost every client expresses some kind of concern about their privacy. Some people are very laid back about it and some people are very, very paranoid. I understand and respect the range of concerns and needs that exist. However, what … continue reading “Professional BDSM & Confidentiality: It Goes Both Ways”

Why I Don’t Do “Feminization” As A Form Of Humiliation

Many Dommes indicate “feminization” as an activity they offer. It’s popular. A lot of men are interested in it. Usually it’s cis men, but I have known trans men who enjoy it. Also, usually straight men, but sometimes queer, bi, … continue reading “Why I Don’t Do “Feminization” As A Form Of Humiliation”