Transformative BDSM with slave 70


Sure, I’m an excellent Domme for you hungry bottoms and respectful fetishists who need a scratch itched, or for Weekend Warrior Subs because they need a place to let go once in a while, but where I really excel is in the intellectual (often philosophical), psychological, and spiritual elements of play, and in seizing the potential for an intense and transformative experience that lies at the core of every BDSM interaction.

While not everyone is interested in, or equipped for, this level of play, slave 70 is clearly a good candidate.

Though we are still getting acquainted, he has shown himself to be willing to not only explore some luscious erotic space but to have me lead him into the often intimidating realm of self-improvement.

It seems from the brief time we have had together, both through a distance contract and in-person sessions, I have already left an indelible impression on him. From our last session he wrote:

“Thank You so much for an out of this world experience. I don’t usually sleep well, but last night I fell asleep early, and slept hard and long like a baby. Just a testament to what an intense afternoon it was.

I’ve been dealing with some personal issues… everyone does. These particular circumstances have really weighed me down in a way that has been all-encompassing — nothing much has been able to provide respite. But my time with You broke through; You made all my problems melt away. You kept me engaged and constantly on my toes, in such a way that my problems were the furthest thing from my mind. Thank You sincerely for that.

With each of the sessions I’ve had, You’ve challenged me in very personal ways, not just emotionally and physically but also intellectually. Yesterday was no exception, and was particularly challenging 🙂 That’s why I can say that my experiences with You are unique and are an order of magnitude different from any experiences I’ve have with others. Simply put, Your attention, focus, energy and spirit all exist on a much higher level. My gratitude for the physical predicaments and the cognitive challenges; In addition to taking home the marks You put on Your property, I also took home several things to think about.”

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More About My Style

I think some people aren’t sure of scope and intensity of play I offer. So I’ll discuss it a little more.

First, the context for everything I do is through my having a genuinely Dominant personality. Because I actually want to be in control, and not create an illusion that I am, the default context I use is power exchange — unless it has been negotiated out, such as a bottom just wanting an impact or bondage session.

Then, I’m a sensual sadist, or sometimes just a sadist. I like to incorporate both sensual and sadistic elements in my scenes, or sometimes just sadistic ones. For those who don’t know, sensuality and sadism aren’t just some extreme example you may imagine; they have a range of expression. Both can be mild as much as they could be heavy. In my professional scenes, my sensualism is more on the milder side of the spectrum, while my sadism can range from mild to heavy.

Important to know is that although I like sensual elements, I do not offer purely sensual scenes. The reason is because it feels like I’m just performing a sensual service top role rather than engaging in BDSM. This isn’t interesting to me as a Dominant and sadist. If you have no desire to feel ANY kind of discomfort, even a mild level, on either a physical or emotional level, then I’m left wondering why you want to see a Dominatrix. You’re likely better off with another type of provider.

Now, while I enjoy intense play, I don’t exclusively or even heavily advertise myself as a sadist because one of my areas of expertise is introducing new people to kink in a way that leaves them feeling safe and energized. I have had a lot of people new to BDSM book sessions with me and I don’t want those people who have not yet learned the ways of the scene think I look “too intense” or “too mean” and that I’m not the right Domme for them.

But I also realize that masochists — especially the heavy type — will believe that unless a Domme is showing you all the heavy play she does, that she must not do it. This is a fair assessment but not accurate.

The challenge is to find a balance so I don’t alienate anyone.

So, while I enjoy offering “intro BDSM” for brand-spanking new, or even, spanking brand new folx (heehee), I also enjoy heavy play. Just be clear what you’re looking for when you request a session.

The only scenes I turn down are those by people who obviously don’t understand the danger of what they’re asking or who I would not trust to do certain activities with.

Update on In-Person Sessions

Effective September 1st I will once again begin accepting select new clients. This means that I will be selective about who I accept as a new client at this time.

As with my existing clients, all new clients will be be required to pass additional health screening and wear a mask for the entirety of their visit. Don’t worry about how it may affect the scene. I will have you distracted by other things and you won’t be thinking about your mask.

For more information, including what activities are currently unavailable, please see this post.

I will continue all my other protocol as usual.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask them here!

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“O/our session was a revelation. i am struggling with any words to thank you enough or explain what the experience has meant to me. You put me into the place i have been seeking to go for most of my life. It felt like such a genuinely shared experience and i was able to fully embrace myself and live in the moment in a way I have never quite achieved in any other session.”

Thank you, sub c! It’s a sincere pleasure to play with you. Looking forward to next time!

My hijra slave

Kaladhar came to serve as my hijra slave and slut.

I have some sarees so I put them in one that was beautiful fuchsia silk with gold.

I then painted their lips shiny red.

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There was much we did, most of which was not documented as I was too engrossed in the scene, but I’ll highlight the breast play.

I laid my hijra down on the table and pumped their breasts nice and large for me…

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Then, I tied them for my enjoyment…

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I couldn’t resist pinching my slut’s nipples…

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And the way my hijra melted and moaned under my touch, it was clear they enjoyed it, too.

Later that evening, they sent my a lovely email:

“i had an incredibly great time and You’re incredible in Your craft. i felt incredibly vulnerable, yet safe in Your presence while serving You. i really enjoyed how deliberate You were in incorporating the hijra identity into the play and reinforcing it at perfect times. Thank You again for letting me experience many new things such as having my breasts and nipples suctioned, putting on a saree, having my lips painted red, the incredible breast bondage, [omitted for privacy], and Your extremely sensual play with my nipples and breasts. i’ll always be grateful to You for granting me many such memories i’ll cherish for a long time. i will not hesitate in strongly recommending You to anyone who seeks to explore their submissive side…

Thank you, Kaladhar! As usual, it was delightful having you.

What Happens When You Don’t Do Your Job

I gave Samantha an assignment.

She failed.

I decided she had to make up for it.

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I brought her to my secret office…

…where I tied her down and taught her a few lessons.

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Then, I bent her over her desk and hiked her slutty skirt up.

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After I was done with her, there was no mistaking who she worked for.

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I made her sign a contract that she will not disappoint me again.

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I think she’s learned her lesson.

Kaladhar serves

Kaladhar said he wanted to serve and be owned by someone like me: a genuine, strong Dominant woman.

This is something I believe most men would benefit from.

I began the process of stripping him of his identity. Who he believed he is was no longer relevant.

Usually a man’s penis is significant part of his identity. So, I took that away from him. It belonged to me now.

But sometimes chastity alone is not enough.

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I wanted to reinforce my possession of him.

Then it was time for the beating.

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He is coming along nicely.

Beth is put in the Stocks

If you remember, beth foolis–er, generously gifted me with some beautiful foot stocks during her last visit in February.

And since then I have been eagerly awaiting her return so I could thoroughly torture her with them!

When she returned in March, for our longest session yet, I built the suspense until…

IT WAS TIME.

I tied her tightly to my bondage table with rope (she’s an escape artist, so she requires extra attention)…

Forced her poor bare feet into the stocks and secured them, along with her toes, so there would be no wiggling out of the way…

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…and proceeded to relentlessly tickle her with all kinds of implements and in all kinds of ways.

(Of course, I didn’t remain solely on her feet.)

Then, once she was gasping for air, I introduced the other new toy she brought me: The Tickle Beavers.

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Oh, they didn’t disappoint.

Her whoops, squeals of breathless laughter, a few nearly desperate chokes, and pleading “no no no no”s didn’t stop me from pushing until my sadistic enjoyment of watching her struggle helplessly was thoroughly satiated.

Afterward, she sent me a lovely message. An excerpt:

“…those implements of horror that were used against me were unbelievably torturous, i have never felt such intensive waves of tingly and ticklish sensations that were inescapable. The whole not being able to move made it that much more insane. i am laughing now, just thinking of it. i know i tend to talk about the personal space / physical intimacy stuff the most, but i also look at this as exciting, fun, and entertaining. Just when i am absolutely on the verge of panic and / or fear, You always end up making me laugh. i know i’m supposed to focus on the power, intimidation, sadistic Mistress, but You are also freakin’ hilarious. 🙂

Truly cannot thank You enough for such an incredible session that still has me feeling the effects days later. You are simply amazing and just when i think i couldn’t be in any more awe of You, BAM, You knock yet another one out of the park.”

Thank you, beth! I had a wonderful time with you!

 

She also brought me this fiber optic whip and a lovely card with a really thoughtful message inside and a generous tip.

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AND then shortly thereafter I received these two beautiful crystals from my wishlist:

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Thank you!!