Giving Thanks

This has been an up and down year for Me. Ultimately gratifying, but unpredictable. This comes with being a pro Domme full time.

Never really knowing what’s around the corner makes Me especially grateful of those who have shown support of Me and what I do in tangible ways.

While I always appreciate those who engage My writing, photos, jokes, rants, etc and extend their compliments, it’s those who show Me they are willing to offer more than just words by booking a session (whether it was one or thirty), offering a gift, or sending a tribute. Because as sweet as compliments can be they aren’t what allows Me to continue the joy of being a Dominatrix and share these amazing experiences with you all.

So, I want to sincerely thank all of you who have done just that.

Extra Special Thanks goes to:

slave john, an incredibly thoughtful and generous person who has offered things to Me, My cats, My home, My dungeon, along with many heart-warming words, and who I am absolutely delighted chooses to visit Me.

slave m, who, despite not serving Me in-person anymore, continues to send many wonderful gifts and exceedingly kind words.

sub p, whose kind, gentle soul and amiable demeanor provides soothing relief — both in and out of the dungeon — in an otherwise demanding and stressful line of work.

Luke, who wrote a very touching review of our amazing session, shows support through Twitter by commenting on and retweeting My thoughts, and sent a lovely birthday gift.

pauletta, who has been a support for almost eight years now, and who sends lovely gifts to Me.

THANK YOU!

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

xo

Mistress Tissa

New to Temenos: Latex VacBed

When I got back from Los Angeles, I had this box waiting for Me:

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Inside was…

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…PVC pipes and a giant latex sack!

Thanks to the generosity of subP, My Temenos now has a latex vacbed!

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This maker’s bed is slightly longer and wider than other makers, so it should fit most body sizes. The latex design itself involves FULL encasement. The only hole is a small tube over your mouth for breathing.

Of course, I can acquire other styles to work with the frame: open mouth, open head, etc.

More time with subP

I always look forward to My time with subP. Our scenes feel very much about exploring the heart of kink, rather than the fantasy of kink, if that makes sense.

Each phase is a warm interplay between our very complementary energies.

I confidently control and She confidently yields.

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(One of our favorite ways to relax: tight bondage.)

I am always impressed by her level of trust because with each moan and sigh and “yes, Mistress”, I feel her genuine surrender to My will.

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(I cut her panties.)

Our three hours were over far too quickly. I felt like I could have gone another three.

She sent Me this the next day:

“The session You crafted was wonderful.  I so appreciate the care You showed and the way You took me places I have very rarely been.  I feel blessed to be permitted to serve You, a genuine Dominant Woman, a consummate professional and a truly nice person.  I will look forward to the next time I can see You.”

Thank you, subP!

she came to surrender

When subP came last, I was in an unusual mood.

I’m usually a more serious type who enjoys intensity in My sessions.

But this time, I felt less Hard Domme and more casual. More Zen.

I informed her of this. she was on board with this energy.

In turn, she told Me that she had been reflecting on a question I asked her maybe a month ago. And her reflection lead her to wondering if she’d ever truly submitted.

So, she made it a goal to completely let go.

Our moods seemed complementary. We had three hours together and it seemed we both wanted to deeply relax into our scene.

I told her to stand…where I, like the perv I am, took the opportunity to shove My camera under  her skirt…

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I’m not sure if she blushed. 😉

I then lead her to My bondage table where I got to work immobilizing her with rope, straps, cords, opera gloves, and even more rope. Next, came her head.

I went over to My shelves of hoods.

My eyes passed over each one until they rested on one in particular.

I asked her if she’d ever worn a latex hood.

“No, Mistress.”

The decision was made.

Then, while all but her latex-encased head was immobilized, I began sending a soft purr of electricity through Her clitty…

Then, a bit more…

….and more…

…and then jolts.

At which point, she yelled out in a mixture of pain and pleasure. Sometimes an “ahhh!” or “ughhhh!”, sometimes a “yes, Misssstresssss!”

…and at which point, I shoved a gag in her gaping mouth.

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Once I was finished, I peeled the latex off.

“How did you like the hood?”

“I loved it,” she smiled.

I’m very glad she did because I see more latex in our future…

(The rest of the session will remain a memory for Me and subP.)

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After our session, she sent Me this message:

“Mistress Tissa,

I want you to know how very special this evening was for me. You made the time pass so quickly, and orchestrated the session so perfectly. I appreciate the care you exhibited. I have never felt so cared for during a scene. I was at ease and therefore I was able to free my mind and let You guide us. Thank you so much for allowing me to serve You. I feel honored.

[subP]”

Thank you, subP!