My Slut

Ready for my enjoyment 😈

My slut and I spent the day together. It allowed us to take our time and enjoy every moment. We had a lovely, sexy time.

Thank You so much for yesterday. It was by far the best session I’ve had with you. I enjoyed how deliberate and un-rushes the whole session was. … Thoroughly enjoyed everything about the session – it’s the first time I dressed completely femme and for that I’m grateful. … Almost everything I experienced in the session yesterday was a first and that is only due to your expertise, creativity  and skill – as I don’t consider myself a novice. You were fantastic! Thanks again for everything.” – Kaladhar

It’s always a pleasure to be served by you, Kaladhar!

CBT Fun with Monkey Dick

Metal is so sexy. Several rows of metal spikes digging into a cock is even sexier.

Oh, don’t worry, I didn’t neglect the balls…

I had a great time.

How about Monkey Dick?

“Thank you for another spectacular session!  The [details of everything I did] was all great!  Finishing the session with mean and strict JOI (which you did real well) was the icing on the cake! Thanks again for the incredible session.”

sub c testimonial

“O/our session was a revelation. i am struggling with any words to thank you enough or explain what the experience has meant to me. You put me into the place i have been seeking to go for most of my life. It felt like such a genuinely shared experience and i was able to fully embrace myself and live in the moment in a way I have never quite achieved in any other session.”

Thank you, sub c! It’s a sincere pleasure to play with you. Looking forward to next time!

My hijra slave

Kaladhar came to serve as my hijra slave and slut.

I have some sarees so I put them in one that was beautiful fuchsia silk with gold.

I then painted their lips shiny red.

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There was much we did, most of which was not documented as I was too engrossed in the scene, but I’ll highlight the breast play.

I laid my hijra down on the table and pumped their breasts nice and large for me…

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Then, I tied them for my enjoyment…

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I couldn’t resist pinching my slut’s nipples…

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And the way my hijra melted and moaned under my touch, it was clear they enjoyed it, too.

Later that evening, they sent my a lovely email:

“i had an incredibly great time and You’re incredible in Your craft. i felt incredibly vulnerable, yet safe in Your presence while serving You. i really enjoyed how deliberate You were in incorporating the hijra identity into the play and reinforcing it at perfect times. Thank You again for letting me experience many new things such as having my breasts and nipples suctioned, putting on a saree, having my lips painted red, the incredible breast bondage, [omitted for privacy], and Your extremely sensual play with my nipples and breasts. i’ll always be grateful to You for granting me many such memories i’ll cherish for a long time. i will not hesitate in strongly recommending You to anyone who seeks to explore their submissive side…

Thank you, Kaladhar! As usual, it was delightful having you.

Beth is put in the Stocks

If you remember, beth foolis–er, generously gifted me with some beautiful foot stocks during her last visit in February.

And since then I have been eagerly awaiting her return so I could thoroughly torture her with them!

When she returned in March, for our longest session yet, I built the suspense until…

IT WAS TIME.

I tied her tightly to my bondage table with rope (she’s an escape artist, so she requires extra attention)…

Forced her poor bare feet into the stocks and secured them, along with her toes, so there would be no wiggling out of the way…

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…and proceeded to relentlessly tickle her with all kinds of implements and in all kinds of ways.

(Of course, I didn’t remain solely on her feet.)

Then, once she was gasping for air, I introduced the other new toy she brought me: The Tickle Beavers.

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Oh, they didn’t disappoint.

Her whoops, squeals of breathless laughter, a few nearly desperate chokes, and pleading “no no no no”s didn’t stop me from pushing until my sadistic enjoyment of watching her struggle helplessly was thoroughly satiated.

Afterward, she sent me a lovely message. An excerpt:

“…those implements of horror that were used against me were unbelievably torturous, i have never felt such intensive waves of tingly and ticklish sensations that were inescapable. The whole not being able to move made it that much more insane. i am laughing now, just thinking of it. i know i tend to talk about the personal space / physical intimacy stuff the most, but i also look at this as exciting, fun, and entertaining. Just when i am absolutely on the verge of panic and / or fear, You always end up making me laugh. i know i’m supposed to focus on the power, intimidation, sadistic Mistress, but You are also freakin’ hilarious. 🙂

Truly cannot thank You enough for such an incredible session that still has me feeling the effects days later. You are simply amazing and just when i think i couldn’t be in any more awe of You, BAM, You knock yet another one out of the park.”

Thank you, beth! I had a wonderful time with you!

 

She also brought me this fiber optic whip and a lovely card with a really thoughtful message inside and a generous tip.

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AND then shortly thereafter I received these two beautiful crystals from my wishlist:

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Thank you!!

 

 

sub c subjects himself to my cruelty…again

sub c is from out of state and isn’t in Philly much, but he happened to be visiting only a month after he was here last. “[I] cannot resist the opportunity to session with You again,” he wrote in a message to me.

When we first spoke, sub c told me he wanted pain. While he used the word “masochist” to describe himself, what that meant to him wasn’t the conventional definition. But I understood it. And I turned it over in my head as I thought about our first, and now 2nd scene.

He also emphasized the importance of the psychological component. And of needing to be humiliated and degraded. I told him those are some of my specialties.

Aside from the overlap of his main interests with some of my specialties, sub c is the kind of player I especially delight in: he actually has a sincere interest in giving up control to me, he’s very much open to my vision and to being pushed, and he enjoys thoughtful consideration of the scene.

Doesn’t he look good here? Mmm…good enough to beat!

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I loved our session and had deeply satisfying moments of Domspace.  I can get really creative when I feel like someone isn’t afraid of being challenged, trusts me and my skills, and is genuinely surrendering to me.

He wrote me this a couple of days later:

“Thank you for another session that was more than I could have hoped for. There is so much that is packed in to a session with you that it takes me days or weeks to fully appreciate what you created.

In particular, it has been fascinating for me to process [one of the scene activities]. In the moment, I was mentally frustrated. It was within my limits but definitely not something I would have fantasized about or asked for. …

As I process, I begin to see the genius in what you created. You took me to a place where I was experiencing exactly what I was requesting, submission of my will to yours. I was not pretending it was happening, it was actually happening and the mental frustration of the moment was an essential component.

I love that you challenge me and that you are thoughtful and creative with the methods and mediums that you use to push. I think in some ways that the mental suffering I went through feels now like a more authentic way of being hurt since there was a bit of a time gap before I was able to contextualize the situation and ultimately get satisfaction from it.

I’m sure more revelations will come as I continue to sort things out, but I just wanted to let you know I am in awe of your sorcery.”

Thank you, sub c! I hope to adventure with you again soon!

Spending the day with R

I had the pleasure of welcoming R to Temenos recently. We spent the day together which really allowed us to become immersed in our experience.

Though R consented to photos, I didn’t take many. I was too focused on what was happening. Here’s one moment when I had him immobilized in a body bag with layers of rope, straps, and chains. Of course, I couldn’t help but take advantage of such enticing defenselessness and took my time torturing his nipples (et cetera).

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I could detail much of what we did, but instead I’ll share with you some of what he emailed me the next day:

Dear Mistress

Thank you so much for the fabulous session yesterday.
I think you know that I loved every minute.
The session went beyond my wildest dreams. … I’ve been playing for 30 years and have been visiting professional Dommes from 2 to 4 times a year in the US and Europe. I have some chronic medical issues but still love to play.
… I’ve never before had my limits pushed so close to the yellow level without quite going there. My nipples will never be the same and are already asking for more!
The meal with e-stim was great fun for me and seeing you grinning as you increased the level while I was trying to make conversation made my day.
I loved you “Domme” outfit and every minute of play.

It takes a truly extraordinary Dominatrix to plan and expedite play at the highest level for many hours. … You are a true artist and simply incredible

Looking forward to seeing you and Phoebe again next year.

Thank you
R

He also brought me these thoughtful gifts:

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A pretty scarf with fringe and some food for the strays I care for.

Thank you, R! Safe travels and looking forward to next time!

Testimonial from Todd

I recently met and had a session with a new player that I truly enjoyed. He said he’d been wanting to try this since he was a teenager. I was delighted he chose me for his first experience.

I love introducing people to BDSM. And I feel honored when I am able to do so. I’m skilled at helping people figure out what might work for them and crafting something at their level, while creating an environment in which people feel sexy but also safe.

When we began, the combination of nerves and adrenaline had him trembling (which is not uncommon). I helped him relax, and once he let go, I quickly followed. I floated into Domspace and off we went.

Todd had quite a few things he wanted to experience. Some things he’d tried a bit of, some things he hadn’t, but I was able to include everything he mentioned — and I had a great time doing it. Afterward, he said, “That was amazing!”

The next day, he sent this to me in an email:

Dear Mistress Tissa,

I wanted to thank you for our session yesterday it was everything I thought it would be and more. You made me feel very comfortable before and during the session which was important because I was very nervous before meeting you. The environment you created not only made me feel comfortable but it was also liberating for me to talk about my fetish openly and finally have a chance to explore it with you. I believe the experience will also have a long term effect on me because I feel I am more willing to accept this as a part of who I am rather than feeling ashamed.

I hope to see you soon.

Thank you again

Todd”

It was really gratifying for me to read this. While I definitely enjoy and appreciate scenes that are just about being hot and sexy, it’s when I can help someone feel more comfortable with and accept some aspect(s) of themselves — even learn to love themselves a little more — that my work is most rewarding. Helping people accept themselves is sacred work.

Thank you, Todd! Hope to see you again soon!

Testimonial from james

I had a very erotic session with james, which was over far too quickly for My liking. I was getting lost in creating a particular experience for him and really enjoying Myself. So much that I lost track of time and went over. Imagine My dismay when I took a glance at the time, it was up, and he appeared to be lost in space. I wasn’t ready to bring him back. (I wouldn’t have if he didn’t have to go back to work…)

Afterward, he wrote this to Me:

“Mistress, i don’t know if i can put into words recapping today’s session. i need to try so please bare with me if i am all over the place.

i was uncertain of where You were going with today’s session when i first arrived a few minutes late. You wanted to go over my soft and hard limits so in my head i thought You might use them. i was wrong. Being a little scattered brained the past few days with work and life in general, i really was looking forward to this session. … i [am] completely honest in [that] it is a joy to serve You Mistress Tissa.

You instructed me to the table to lay on my back. Watching you prepare the ropes had me in awe. Your hands took over and before i knew it i was hog tied and completely exposed. You slowly started your magic on me and just took me to a subspace i haven’t experienced in many years. Thank You.

Every aspect of the session was amazing. i am glad You allowed me to serve You. It is an honor Mistress Tissa.

Until the next session … keep being Amazing.”

Good to know the feeling was mutual!

Thank you, james. I look forward to our next experience!

Testimonial from Beth

Beth wrote this lovely testimonial about her experience with Me on Max Fisch:

“i am a complete novice to all of this. Have had long held “dirty little secret” of being excited and fascinated by tickling that i never revealed to anyone before, and so had never had considerable real time experience. Have also struggled with anxiety, personal space / intimacy issues most of my life, and really wanted to try something to push past all my self imposed boundaries. i finally decided to try and schedule a 1 hr session with Mistress Tissa, to finally experience this long held fantasy, a ‘bucket list’ item. i completed her comprehensive application and followed through with the required phone call interview. i was beyond nervous and could barely speak coherently, but Mistress guided me through the phone conversation, suggesting the addition of spanking to the session to mix things up. i had never even thought about that, have always been so focused on tickling, but for some reason, i agreed, and we scheduled a session. Before the session, i sent her an email explaining my nervousness and some things that had come up for me since our last phone call. She suggested a pre session coaching phone call, to help me be better prepared for the experience. When i arrived for the session, i was shaking and nervous and barely able to speak. Mistress was unbelievably kind and talked me through my nerves before we transitioned down to her dungeon. Mistress managed to establish very clearly Her Dominance, strength, and control of the situation. And although i was unbelievably nervous, bashful and intimidated, She also made me feel safe and protected. The one hour session flew by, and in spite of myself, i had managed to let go, at least partly, and experience it. When i left, i knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that i wanted to go back again. i could not believe how incredible i felt afterward, how much She had gotten inside my head and pushed me, it was incredible. i knew i had to go back, at least one more time, to make sure it wasn’t some kind of fluke. i had another phone coaching session with Her before the second session, to discuss my initial experience and talk about the next.

i have had now had the privilege of two sessions with Mistress Tissa, and have just scheduled my third. It was no fluke. my second session was 2 hrs, and She again exceeded all my wildest expectations, clearing my head, quieting the noise, and forcing me into the moment. i left that session with my head spinning and feeling better than i had in weeks.

i plan on continuing to session with Mistress Tissa as i continue to work on pushing through boundaries and getting closer to being my authentic self. i did not expect to care so much about what She thought or even really considered that i would want to serve Her. But when She told me i did well at the end of the session, i was ecstatic that i had pleased her.
i realized i do want to serve her, and give up control to her, to regain control in my life. Mistress is so intuitive, so good at what She does, that She has brought out interests i didn’t even know i had. i am convinced that continued sessions with her will be a life transforming experience. And unbelievably fun and exciting too. i am in awe of her strength, intelligence, uncanny intuition and her high ethical standards. She is an intimidating force to be reckoned with in all the right ways. Don’t walk, RUN and request a session with Mistress Tissa right away!”

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