Welcoming Nimagras

Recently, I brought Nimagras on his first adventure with me. He indicated that he had wanted to contact me for a long time but didn’t feel he was ready to submit to me — until now.

Nima is an experienced player. He had a lot to say about what he enjoyed and didn’t, and presented a level of self-awareness that I appreciate. However, in my typical fashion, probed him further in our pre-session conversation (almost twice what I allotted!) which revealed “things…that never crossed my mind”.

When he came for his session, our conversation flowed, but once we descended into my dungeon I perceived some reticence. I usually see such things as a challenge — which I gladly accept. ūüėČ

Afterward, we were both spent.

The day after he wrote this to me:

“I left enveloped in a womb-like warmth, physically and mentally exhausted. I awoke pleasantly numb and famished.

I have a pair of day-after measures which have yet to fail.

1. It’s a great session if I felt safe enough to drop my guard, to give into the experience, and to GET OUT OF MY OWN WAY. It means that the walls enveloped us and that I trusted you to take care of everything. It means I did not have a care in the world because you were taking care of everything, and all I had to do was enjoy what you produced. It means it was a symbiotic relationship where we both got something. It’s akin to mental marriage for a few hours.

2. It’s said that a starving man will pay anything for a steak, but he has no interest in a second steak, even if it’s free. It’s a great session if I walk out so satisfied that I could not conceivably continue playing, even for free!

Together, we hit home runs on both. I’m certain I have never had a first session where both litmus tests were positive. That success is a testament to your ability to let me enjoy the roller coaster.”

Thank you, Nima. If I were to say anything, other than to thank you for your trust, it would be that while I created the roller coaster, you were the one who allowed yourself to enjoy it.

He then sent this follow-up message:

“It occurred to me last night that on a daily basis you produce such experiences to fulfill each client’s hopes and expectations. I’m awed at the mental and physical toll put upon you. Plus, you willingly carry the huge responsibility of guiding each client safely and successfully through their experience. 


I knew being a pro is hard work. Until this week, I did not have an appreciation for just how much you give of yourself. Saying thank you seems insufficient, but I sincerely thank you for putting forth such effort on the behalf of your clients.”

I appreciate this. You’re right: this is hard work. And the more you put yourself into it, the more exhausting it is — but also the more rewarding.

UPDATE: Nima sent me this a few days later:

“Still mellow and warm inside. Better than drugs.¬†


You have the touch.”

I’ve heard this before. ūüėČ

Until next time…

Mistress Tissa

Transformative BDSM with slave 70


Sure, I’m an excellent Domme for you hungry bottoms and respectful fetishists who need a scratch itched, or for Weekend Warrior Subs because they need a place to let go once in a while, but where I really excel is in the intellectual (often philosophical), psychological, and spiritual elements of play, and in seizing the potential for an intense and transformative experience that lies at the core of every BDSM interaction.

While not everyone is interested in, or equipped for, this level of play, slave 70 is clearly a good candidate.

Though we are still getting acquainted, he has shown himself to be willing to not only explore some luscious erotic space but to have me lead him into the often intimidating realm of self-improvement.

It seems from the brief time we have had together, both through a distance contract and in-person sessions, I have already left an indelible impression on him. From our last session he wrote:

“Thank You so much¬†for an¬†out of this world experience.¬†I don‚Äôt usually sleep well, but last night I fell asleep early, and slept hard and long like a baby. Just a testament to what an intense afternoon it was.

I‚Äôve been dealing with some personal issues‚Ķ everyone does. These particular circumstances have really¬†weighed me down in a way that has been¬†all-encompassing ‚ÄĒ¬†nothing much has been able to provide respite. But¬†my time¬†with You broke through;¬†You¬†made all my problems¬†melt away.¬†You kept me engaged and constantly on my toes, in such a way that my problems were¬†the furthest thing from my¬†mind. Thank You sincerely for that.

With each of the sessions I‚Äôve had, You‚Äôve¬†challenged me in very personal ways,¬†not just emotionally and physically but also intellectually. Yesterday was no exception, and was¬†particularly challenging ūüôā That‚Äôs why I can say that my experiences with You are unique and are¬†an order of magnitude different from any¬†experiences I‚Äôve have with others. Simply put, Your attention, focus, energy and spirit all exist¬†on a much higher¬†level. My gratitude for the physical predicaments and the cognitive challenges; In addition to taking home the marks You put on Your property, I also took home several things to think about.”

slave 70

Welcoming T and FC to Temenos

I recently had the pleasure of a scene with T and FC, a lovely couple from out of state.

T initially approached me wanting to gift a scene to her partner, FC, while also having an interest in improving her skills and confidence assuming the Dominant role as she may desire in their relationship.

After speaking with them both, I crafted something that I felt would fit their experience level and meet their needs, both individually but also as a couple.

They both wrote me afterward.

From T:

"Thank you for an incredible experience. The thought and care you put into the session was evident. Any nerves or discomfort I initially felt melted away within moments thanks to your clever positioning and language choice as you started the scene. I loved the [implement] and hadn’t thought about that as a possibility. I loved watching the way you crafted the scene and the punishments delivered. Absolutely no issues came up, in fact quite the opposite ;). It was great to learn that FC can take a LOT of pain (he might be a pain slut after all). Thank you thank you for this rich addition to our relationship." 

From FC:

Dear Mistress Tissa,

Thank you for your creative and insightful treatment. Not a single experience was unpleasant from my perspective.

You incorporated T into the experience in a way that I think fostered more open communication and a stronger bond. We are now able to explore topics that would have been delicate before our time with you, and when I close my eyes, I still clearly see scenes from those amazing hours. 

From your choice of clothing to the type of "punishment" delivered, my fantasies came true and then some.

Unfortunately, I recovered quickly, and there were no lasting marks, but the memories will stick. I loved the method of priming before the [activities], and I loved being stretched out on the table. Having to [activity] was demeaning in a fun way, as was the [another activity]. Being ordered to [yet another activity] was an expert move. 

I thought [you] did a wonderful job with how to incorporate both of us.

It would be a joy to have another session sometime. ... Thank you again for a magical day.

Thank you for being so hot to play with! I had a wonderful time with you both. I hope to see you again in the future!

Mistress Tissa

Welcoming Loso to Temenos

Loso recently came for his first session with me. This is what he wrote to me afterward (edited slightly for privacy):

After reflecting on our session I was impressed with the entire experience from the pre-session communication to the execution of the activities during the session. You made me feel very comfortable when I arrived, and I felt like I was able to be very open with you about my likes and dislikes. That is very important, because at no point there was pressure for me to feel like I had to do something I was uncomfortable with. At the beginning of our session I was a bit tense and in my own head. You noticed this right away, and you made sure to make me feel relaxed and put me in a headspace where I could fully let go. … This is all a credit to you and your experience on how to guide someone to having the right mindset while serving you. Also, you were very caring for marks that were made throughout the session and made sure to clean/treat them properly. There were a lot of favorite activities I can pull from our time together, but I will try to name a few. When I was on the cross there was silence in the room and the only sounds were the impact of your flogger and smacks. This was the moment I truly let go and felt like I was no longer thinking, but instead reacting. The next activity was when I was on your table … There were a lot of sensations being played with at this point, and I loved the feeling of how vulnerable I felt. The last thing was [the predicament]. During this part I felt like I had to work for something, and the challenge I was presented with created a unique sensation on the mind and body. All in all it was an amazing session, and I hope I can be granted the opportunity to serve you again.

Also, he sent me this fantastic silicone gag from my wishlist:

Thank you, Loso! I’m glad we were able to have this hot and memorable experience together. You’re welcome back whenever you’re ready.

Testimonial from slave 70

I welcomed slave 70 to Temenos recently. Here is what he wrote to me afterward:

I greatly appreciate you inviting me into Your world and into Temenos for the afternoon. I appreciate all the time, effort and energy You clearly must have devoted to making today such a success. It was all I had hoped for, and so much more.

…You looked absolutely stunning. In my opinion You look¬†even better in person than in Your photos. I¬†hear people use this¬†phrase¬†a lot, but I genuinely mean it.

…Your Dominant¬†commanding presence and probing eyes overwhelmed me. But¬†I also loved seeing you betray a¬†beautiful smile here and there, like when You were¬†setting up or adjusting¬†the ropes or torturing me with various things. I appreciate how You kept me on my toes the whole time, challenging me, pushing me and questioning me. I also really got into You training me to respond to Your commands appropriately; actually I loved that!

As I drove home,¬†I was thinking about how the world feels very different,¬†in a sense¬†fresh and new.¬†I feel a bit like¬†Neo from the Matrix ‚Äúwaking up‚ÄĚ and¬†seeing the world with¬†a completely new perspective. … And I‚Äôm¬†already hearing Your voice echo in my head,¬†helping to guide me as I make choices, good choices that is. Thank You for that.

Today was an incredible day; so many things were perfect for me. It was quite easy for me to fall under Your spell, as You truly are a naturally Dominant person. I do hope You will permit me to see You again soon; I would be a very lucky slave to have that honor.

Thank you, slave 70! I’m elated I was able to help you achieve this in only our first session. Looking forward to what may come!

(And, yes, of course you’re welcome to visit again.)

My Slut

Ready for my enjoyment 😈

My slut and I spent the day together. It allowed us to take our time and enjoy every moment. We had a lovely, sexy time.

Thank You so much for yesterday. It was by far the best session I‚Äôve had with you. I enjoyed how deliberate and un-rushes the whole session was. … Thoroughly enjoyed everything about the session – it‚Äôs the first time I dressed completely femme and for that I‚Äôm grateful. … Almost everything I experienced in the session yesterday was a first and that is only due to your expertise, creativity  and skill – as I don‚Äôt consider myself a novice. You were fantastic! Thanks again for everything.” – Kaladhar

It’s always a pleasure to be served by you, Kaladhar!

CBT Fun with Monkey Dick

Metal is so sexy. Several rows of metal spikes digging into a cock is even sexier.

Oh, don’t worry, I didn’t neglect the balls…

I had a great time.

How about Monkey Dick?

“Thank you for another spectacular session!¬† The [details of everything I did] was all great!¬† Finishing the session with mean and strict JOI (which you did real well) was the icing on the cake! Thanks again for the incredible session.”

sub c testimonial

“O/our session was a revelation. i am struggling with any words to thank you enough or explain what the experience has meant to me. You put me into the place i have been seeking to go for most of my life. It felt like such a genuinely shared experience and i was able to fully embrace myself and live in the moment in a way I have never quite achieved in any other session.”

Thank you, sub c! It’s a sincere pleasure to play with you. Looking forward to next time!

My hijra slave

Kaladhar came to serve as my hijra slave and slut.

I have some sarees so I put them in one that was beautiful fuchsia silk with gold.

I then painted their lips shiny red.

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There was much we did, most of which was not documented as I was too engrossed in the scene, but I’ll highlight the breast play.

I laid my hijra down on the table and pumped their breasts nice and large for me…

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Then, I tied them for my enjoyment…

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I couldn’t resist pinching my slut’s nipples…

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And the way my hijra melted and moaned under my touch, it was clear they enjoyed it, too.

Later that evening, they sent my a lovely email:

“i had an incredibly great time and You’re incredible in Your craft. i felt incredibly vulnerable, yet safe in Your presence while serving You. i really enjoyed how deliberate You were in incorporating the hijra identity into the play and reinforcing it at perfect times. Thank You again for letting me experience many new things such as having my breasts and nipples suctioned, putting on a saree, having my lips painted red, the incredible breast bondage, [omitted for privacy], and Your extremely sensual play with my nipples and breasts. i’ll always be grateful to You for granting me many such memories i’ll cherish for a long time. i will not hesitate in strongly recommending You to anyone who seeks to explore their submissive side…

Thank you, Kaladhar! As usual, it was delightful having you.

Beth is put in the Stocks

If you remember, beth foolis–er, generously gifted me with some beautiful foot stocks during her last visit in February.

And since then I have been eagerly awaiting her return so I could thoroughly torture her with them!

When she returned in March, for our longest session yet, I built the suspense until…

IT WAS TIME.

I tied her tightly to my bondage table with rope (she’s an escape artist, so she requires extra attention)…

Forced her poor bare feet into the stocks and secured them, along with her toes, so there would be no wiggling out of the way…

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…and proceeded to relentlessly tickle her with all kinds of implements and in all kinds of ways.

(Of course, I didn’t remain solely on her feet.)

Then, once she was gasping for air, I introduced the other new toy she brought me: The Tickle Beavers.

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Oh, they didn’t disappoint.

Her whoops, squeals of breathless laughter, a few nearly desperate chokes, and pleading “no no no no”s didn’t stop me from pushing until my sadistic enjoyment of watching her struggle helplessly was thoroughly satiated.

Afterward, she sent me a lovely message. An excerpt:

“…those implements of horror that were used against me were unbelievably torturous, i have never felt such intensive waves of tingly and ticklish sensations that were inescapable. The whole not being able to move made it that much more insane. i am laughing now, just thinking of it. i know i tend to talk about the personal space / physical intimacy stuff the most, but i also look at this as exciting, fun, and entertaining. Just when i am absolutely on the verge of panic and / or fear, You always end up making me laugh. i know i’m supposed to focus on the power, intimidation, sadistic Mistress, but You are also freakin’ hilarious. ūüôā

Truly cannot thank You enough for such an incredible session that still has me feeling the effects days later. You are simply amazing and just when i think i couldn’t be in any more awe of You, BAM, You knock yet another one out of the park.”

Thank you, beth! I had a wonderful time with you!

 

She also brought me this fiber optic whip and a lovely card with a really thoughtful message inside and a generous tip.

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AND then shortly thereafter I received these two beautiful crystals from my wishlist:

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Thank you!!