Beth’s 2nd visit

Beth came back for round two. This time for two hours.

Knowing what I had come to learn about her, I thought she’d enjoy more spanking. Not only for potential eroticism but also as something that could be therapeutic for her. So, I decided to give her a more immersive experience with it. I instructed her to lay across my lap and I gave her a thorough bare-handed spanking.

Then, of course, there was more tickling. Which has both of us literally rolling on the floor. She kept trying to writhe away from me…and I kept dragging her back. The laughter was infectious.

I then introduced her to flogging. Varying and building sensations. She surprised me with how much she took for her first time.

And, like that, two hours was up.

Later that evening, she sent me this email:

“I got home a little while ago and although I spent the entire car ride back trying to figure out how to thank you properly,  I am still at a loss for the right words.  
This has been a very rough month for me. My depression and anxiety have been unrelenting. I’ve had a constant tightness in my chest and all my nerve endings felt like they were on fire, everything hurt.  But then I came to see you and for some reason  by some miracle, you managed to quiet all the noise in my head and all I was thinking about or focused on was what was happening in that room today.  I felt safe and protected and cared for and I don’t know how to thank you for that.
I really appreciated everything you did today and I actually enjoyed it too. You make it easier to try to push my boundaries and try new things. I was so worried that last time was a fluke and I was afraid to believe in the positive things I felt afterward, because I didn’t want to be disappointed or let down. And then I came today and now I know it’s definitely not a fluke. I feel even more certain that you are going to be able to help me make the changes I need to make in my life, if you will allow me to keep coming back.  I trust you and would really like you to continue to guide me through this journey, if you are willing. 
Thank you so much Mistress.”
Then, the next day she shared:
“For the first time in a month, i slept soundly thru the night and didn’t feel exhausted when i woke up. And today, I’ve just been thinking of everything i felt and experienced yesterday. For two hours i didn’t feel broken or defective or afraid. I don’t know how you did that, but i am so, so grateful!”
A big grin took over my face when I read this. I am so happy for her!
I look forward to wherever we may go next time!

My time with Beth

I just saw Beth for the first time last night. She contacted me and said she really wanted to experience a session with a Dominatrix, and had thought about for a long time, but felt very apprehensive about it — so apprehensive that she felt she couldn’t even talk about it out loud.

While we were negotiating the scene, which was clearly challenging for her, she expressed some deeper issues, such as embarrassment, shame, and that she “spent a lifetime repressing feelings or thoughts that seemed ‘wrong'”.

She disclosed that she struggles with depression and a lot of anxiety. She explained that she’s let fear “rule” her her entire life and make decisions for her, and this has filled her with many regrets. Some of her fear was about physical contact and intimacy, and that she’s has created walls to protect herself, which simultaneously has created her own isolation from happiness and fulfillment.

But she said she is tired of it. She’s tired of being a “prisoner of her own brain”; she really wants to break through that. And she told me she thought I would be a good match for her because of my background and skills in psychology, and the testimonials that people had written about their experiences with me.

I suggested a coaching session before we met to discuss some of these deeper feelings and hopefully help to assuage her anxiety. She accepted and it allowed me to get to know her even more, which allowed me to tweak the session to benefit her even more.

I wanted it to be therapeutic, but also sexy. Well, here’s what she emailed me afterward:

I just got home,  exhausted,  a bit delirious and with a behind that is still stinging….I smiled the whole way home.  I truly do not know how to thank you for tonight.   It was the most incredible thing I have ever experienced,  and although I am still a bit overwhelmed and my head is spinning as I try to process this,  I am so profoundly grateful to you.  You really must have super powers,  because you managed to intimidate me,  get in my head and push,  while somehow managing to make me feel comfortable with you, and safe.  Trust does not come easily to me,  and although I don’t know why,  I do trust you. I left your house feeling so proud of myself ( a rarity!) And by the time I got home,  I was actually feeling hopeful,  for the first time in a very long time,  that I might be able to break thru these limits this time.   Hope is everything,  and I have no idea how to thank you for that.   

I hope I have your permission to request another session with you down the road,  because i really believe I have more work to do.   And, just typing this is making me bright red, but it was actually fun!

Thank you so much Mistress, for everything.”

Thank you, Beth! I had a fantastic time with you and I’m honored to have been a part of your journey. I hope we get to have another experience again soon!

Testimonial from Luke

“First of all, let me say I was so happy to be back in Your presence!  You are as delightful, elegant, and gracious a hostess as ever.

And devious.  This session was absolutely unique and fantastic!  Everything was unexpected, … You played with some fetishes I didn’t even know I had … You played with my sense of reality were otherworldly.  

The good news for me is, You ALWAYS know where to go next.  Every time I think You’ve plunged me as low as I can go, You find some new way to wring out the last vestiges of pride and self-respect that might be hiding in the corners of my mind.  This was complete debasement.  It was terribly humiliating.  By which I mean greatly humiliating.  By which I mean awesomely humiliating.  And after all of that, my…having the privilege of kissing Your perfect, fetish-inducing feet was the final irony.  

(I will take this opportunity to lodge a formal protest regarding the beauty of Your feet. I will repeat to my death that I am NOT a foot fetishist!!!! …but [sigh] I think I’m…uhh… starting to understand. Dammit!)

In summary, I just want to thank You again for the magical, sublime (yet very REAL) experiences that you provide.  My senses are left tingling, and I’m left shaking my head in awe of what has just happened.  Sessioning with You is a privilege unlike any other.”

Thank you, Luke! You are an absolute delight to session with. I can’t wait for our next adventure!

And thank you for your generous gift!

New testimonial from km

I wanted to thank you for a great first session. It was awesome experience.  Everything from the initial communication to the end of the session was professional.  You made me feel real comfortable throughout. I still can’t get over how good looking you are. When you opened the door I was in awe.”

– km

Thank you, km!

Testimonial from eb

I would like to thank you for our memorable session on Friday. It was incredible! I was expecting something big, but I have to admit that it really surpassed my expectation. … You managed to create a “high-quality scene” – as stated on your website – during our session. Your ‘Gothic Goddess look’ was flawless and intimidating. The image of You …will last for sure. You were able to push the boundaries of psychological domination in a addicting way. It was a privilege and great pleasure to serve You. Hope I can serve You again soon.

Thank you, eb! It was a pleasure.

Testimonial from sam

“However hot you think Mistress Tissa is from looking at her photos, I promise you she is way hotter In person. she is also deceptively strong considering her slim frame. While she is strict and likes to test your limits, she is also respectful of them, and I felt very safe in her hands. I felt completely helpless from the moment she got a hold of me. And as soon as she trapped me, I was completely at her mercy. I traveled all the way from New York to see her, It was everything I had hoped for, and she more then exceeded my expectations. I will definitely be seeing her again soon.Sam”

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New testimonial from Bmore

“I had my first 90 minute session with Mistress Tissa, and I couldn’t have been happier! Mistress Tissa really took the time to understand what I was looking for in my session and went above and beyond. Temenos (her space) is well equipped and very easy to get to. Mistress Tissa absolutely lives up to her pictures and description both physically and mentally. She is a force to be reckoned with. Our session included foot domination, rough play, bondage and power exchange. The session was exactly what I expected without being predictable, and definitely kept me on my toes. You can tell that Mistress Tissa enjoys this, and is naturally dominant! I absolutely cannot wait until our next session!”

Bmore

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Meeting Heather

One of My favorite things about being a Dominatrix is offering a space for people to be themselves without fear of being judged. I believe feeling safe to be one’s self is essential to people’s well-being – emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. So, when people come to Me believing that I am someone who they can feel safe with, I feel deeply honored.

This month I had an especially gratifying experience offering a much needed safe space to an absolutely lovely femme, Heather. She had been repressing some fundamental aspects of herself, like many of us do at some point in our lives. But, after bringing her back from an impulse to cancel, which I believed was coming from fear and not a change of heart, she came to Me for her very first session with a Dominatrix.

Sometimes what I imagine a session might be like is not quite how it ends up being. This was one of those sessions. When I had her stand in front of Me, the bottled-up emotion was palpable. It only took the slightest touch and a few carefully chosen words to feel her tremble and sigh, “that feels incredible”. There was a lot in there that I sensed wanted out. I knew this session was not going to go as I planned.

I decided to scrap the bulk of what I had envisioned and use the Zen approach. The next two hours encompassed dressing, introspection, makeup, confessions, bondage,  discovery, spanking, and back again. The mood moved from casual, to sensual, to poignant, to very sexy. It was one of those sessions that leaves Me feeling especially energized and reminds Me that I’m doing important work.

The next day, I received this email:

Thank you very much for our conversation yesterday.

i loved my experience and will be reaching back to you

I sent you a “thank you” gift …

You brought out the real me  – and it felt good.

Thank you

Heather

Her generous gift came next:

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Thank you, Heather!! I was a delight meeting and playing with you!

Torturing Monkey Dick

I had a lot of fun with Monkey Dick this weekend. Two thrilling hours of Me torturing his junk.

Here’s Me punching his balls:

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Don’t tell him this but I had bought a new toy for our session but due to the snow storm delivery was delayed and it didn’t arrive in time.

He brought a funny card for Me with a gift inside:

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He then sent Me this message:

“Thanks for another great session! … You looked both beautiful and intimidating as you stood in front of me … You manged to keep me very excited while delivering significant pain to my cock and balls, producing a high level of agony and ecstasy. It was a very exciting and fulfilling session.”

Thank you, Monkey Dick!!

Testimonial from slut b

“Mistress Tissa, i want to thank You so very much for allowing me the privilege of seeing You. … You challenge both my mind and body. Your questions and comments are very insightful and thought provoking. i have a long long way to go but i have learned a lot about myself, and the needs and desires i have. You have helped me feel more comfortable with that part of myself.

Often when thinking of You i feel a sense of submissiveness, knowing that in our contact You truly hold all the power. That knowledge gives me a feeling of peacefulness believe it or not. i understand there will be a time when all control is in Your hands. When You fasten the collar around my neck i know i am Yours to do with as You please. It is both erotic and freeing for me.

i do understand i am not Your perfect “sub”. i am striving to someday be Your “perfect sub”. over the time i have known You i feel a lot different about things. i truly want to Please You. … i gain pleasure by your praise when i am deserving, and take it very seriously when You need to correct my behavior. i am totally exposed when in Your presence. Nothing is held back, You see a part of me no else does. It feels so good for our brief time together to share that with You. i feel it is without judgement on Your part and that allows me to be more comfortable with myself.

You are very very special!! i hope to continue learning more about myself through You”

Thank you, slut b!