Ballbusting Teaser

Spanking beth

Tickling Beth

Arabian Whip

Have you ever experienced an Arabian whip? I don’t see many use it, but it’s one of my faves.

Here I am using it on my sub:

Excuse the poor lighting. I was not set up for a shoot.

Fiber Optic Whip

beth gifted me one of the fiber optic whips from my wishlist months ago and I finally was able to use it in a session and take a short video (my sub was omitted from the frame for privacy.):

It’s different than most whips because it’s very lightweight, so you have to wield it differently. It’s also very long and I don’t have the clearance to use it in its entirety, so I just used the shorter part and let the longer ends dangle and be pretty. There are a lot of different color and pattern settings, so it makes even more fun to use.

This is a good whip for someone who wants the sensation of “lashes” but only very lightly.

Gifts for the Cats

The cats have gotten some love lately!

I received these two cases of cat food and some catnip from d:


Sprinkling the nip out on the patio for the strays is especially entertaining. They go from anxious to writhing around like they’re on E.

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Then I got a case of food from slave john shortly followed by a case of food for the kittens and litter from beth:


All the kits meow you their thanks!!!



Hovey Benjamin: Send Bobs

Dommes (and other adult artists, providers, and entertainers) who use the internet will likely have encountered at least one of these guys; probably multiple, if you keep your channels of communication open to anyone.

They are men who don’t speak English very well — and they want Us the hand over the goods. This often produces very funny results.

This (catchy) song is obviously an ode to these men.

Human Nature

Society tends to view people like Me as things to be criminalized and eradicated. Likewise with others whose livelihood involves eroticism or sex. When people like them are faced with some aspect they do not like about themselves, such as an interest in being tied down and flogged, people like Me who joyously do these things (consensually, of course), become scapegoats for their repressed sexuality.

One reason why I do what I do is because I am genuinely passionate about people expressing who they really are. I am especially interested in matters of identity, sexuality (especially kink), and intimacy. All of which are conscious elements of how I approach and practice BDSM.

Sadly, our world attempts to define and control these things from the moment we are born. We are color-coded and assigned roles and expectations about how we dress, behave, have sex–and with whom. We are told what is okay and what is not. And when we don’t fit into those boxes and express our true nature, we are often shamed.

I don’t think most people fall neatly into “woman” or “man” or “straight” or “gay”. I don’t even think most people are strictly “vanilla”. Identity and sexuality are far more interesting and nuanced than what we are lead to believe. Challenging and experimenting with what we have been taught about them can be very exciting, gratifying, and liberating.

I am here to provide a safe space for you to explore these things that you may feel afraid to express. I am here to usher you into a new awareness of yourself.