Ballbusting Teaser

Playing Footsie with beth

This is my style of footsie 😉

(There are two more in this “footsie” series. If I’m feeling generous I might post them.)

Spanking beth

Hovey Benjamin: Send Bobs

Dommes (and other adult artists, providers, and entertainers) who use the internet will likely have encountered at least one of these guys; probably multiple, if you keep your channels of communication open to anyone.

They are men who don’t speak English very well — and they want Us the hand over the goods. This often produces very funny results.

This (catchy) song is obviously an ode to these men.

This Kind of Sex Can Create an Altered Mental State

Article: This Kind of Sex Can Create an Altered Mental State (Time.com)

Aside from the ad for the new 50 Shades movie at the top, I also have a criticism about:

“The researchers randomly assigned a person in each pair to the “top” role—the person who gives orders—or the “bottom” role, the one who follows them.”

This is a common error, as it conflates the role of top with Dominant and bottom with submissive. These often pair, but not always. Being a top does not inherently mean you are the Dominant (“person who gives orders”) and being the bottom does not always mean you are submissive (“the one who follows them”).

Bonus: a brief interview with Dr. Shirley Zussman, a 100-year-old sex therapist!